@drzdude,
drzdude wrote:
I know i know... i want to be assertive. if i didn't have difficulties with these things i wouldn't be on here. Thanks for the help and advice. I will let you guys know how things go in the future.
You need to figure out why you don't stake your claim, what is holding you back. Self esteem problems are the #1 most likely cause. The answers are going to be found inside you, not on A2K.