So about this girl (a married woman)

@PUNKEY,

"Probably because she could and you came off as the perfect 'victim"

See my lack of being smart comment - or maybe naivee would be more appropriate.

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@Linkat,

Well forgive me for bringing this subject up. I was expecting to get some adult responses, maybe even have a real adult conversation with one of you. Instead, you're all going down my throat like a bunch of immature high school girls, but oh well.

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@davesoprano,

You got plenty of adult responses. You also got some good-natured joking. That's what you get around here. So you may want to lighten up a bit if you are going to keep posting here.

Anyway, here is my 2 cents worth as I see it. The two of you talked and were friends while attending the same class. She has gone her way, you have gone yours. Just so you know, not every woman who smiles at you or gives you a hug is after anything other than a friendly relationship with you.

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@davesoprano,

davesoprano wrote:

Well forgive me for bringing this subject up. I was expecting to get some adult responses, maybe even have a real adult conversation with one of you. Instead, you're all going down my throat like a bunch of immature high school girls, but oh well.

What did I tell you... a dick.

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@contrex,

psst. contrex, text me what you're gonna wear to Zoey's party tomorrow.
I don't wanna wear the same thing.

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@davesoprano,

An adult would have known - come on lighten up - it is obvious you are a young college student. You were flattered by her attention - she took you in to get help on her homework - either that or she is just the outgoing overally friendly type. And after that final couple of texts realized you were taking it more than a friendship so she was shorter with you.

Nothing wrong with making the mistake that she didn't want to have an affair with you. You're young it happens - especially to boys. My 12 year old even knows boys are silly.

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@davesoprano,

Dave, if Punkey gave you the answer you were looking for then I can see why you are so upset with the rest of this motley crowd.
I'm a married woman, who makes friends easily, smiles a lot, gives the occasional hug, and I call people darlin'. I've also gone to school with menfolk that I made friends with. We'd sit together and study, sometimes eat in the cafeteria and once in a while walk down the halls together. Hell we even exchanged phone numbers too!
Until today, with the help of Punkey's wise words, I hadn't realized I was "manipulating by being a flirtatious, seductive, married woman. Just thought I was being neighbourly, however I now know WHY I flirted? Probably because I could and they all came off as the perfect 'victim.' Some women love the power of being able to seduce men, married or not."
So thanks to you both for showing me the errors of my ways. Not sure what your lady friend, or the ah.. the horrible cheating bitch or I actually used you poor saps for during our terms at school, but at least now I understand the motives, and you why you and presumably all males that have made friends with flirtatious, seductive, married women are so messed up.

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@Ceili,

You tramp! How dare you smile at men! You are a married woman - for the love of God you should know better!

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@Linkat,

Apparently.. lol

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@Ceili,

Ceili wrote:

Dave, if Punkey gave you the answer you were looking for then I can see why you are so upset with the rest of this motley crowd.
I'm a married woman, who makes friends easily, smiles a lot, gives the occasional hug, and I call people darlin'. I've also gone to school with menfolk that I made friends with. We'd sit together and study, sometimes eat in the cafeteria and once in a while walk down the halls together. Hell we even exchanged phone numbers too!
Until today, with the help of Punkey's wise words, I hadn't realized I was "manipulating by being a flirtatious, seductive, married woman. Just thought I was being neighbourly, however I now know WHY I flirted? Probably because I could and they all came off as the perfect 'victim.' Some women love the power of being able to seduce men, married or not."
So thanks to you both for showing me the errors of my ways. Not sure what your lady friend, or the ah.. the horrible cheating bitch or I actually used you poor saps for during our terms at school, but at least now I understand the motives, and you why you and presumably all males that have made friends with flirtatious, seductive, married women are so messed up.

Yes, and I'm sure hawkeye will be by anytime now to verify this.

I was at a 4 way stop the other day, and waved a man on to go first. I'm surprised he didn't pick up on my message, and follow me home.

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@chai2,

You're all a bunch of tramps - manipulating men - just look at the way your dressed! Your wrist was showing when you waved him on.

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@Linkat,

stop looking at me.

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Burkas! Get you burkas here!

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@sozobe,

I learned my lesson on leading men on - reminds me of the summer after I graduated college. I was out at sports bar and saw this guy I remembered from a class in college.

So I went over to say Hi. I couldn't for the life of me remember his name. He said hi back and said didn't have such and such class with Prof. A. He said no - so I said it must be this class - he looked at me and smiled this sly smile.....oh, I know why you remember me, you saw me in the cafe and thought I was cute.

Now why the h*ll would some one get me simply trying to be nice and say Hi as a come on? The poor sap didn't even know the real reason why I remembered him - I remember him coming into class and thinking why he is an odd looking fellow - he really stood out to because he looked so peculiar not at all attractive.

After that I wore a burka regularly and then would look downward and not make eyecontact or speak to men. I didn't realize how manipulative I was being to the poor sap and didn't realize I was leading him on.

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@Linkat,

Linkat wrote:

After that I wore a burka regularly and then would look downward and not make eyecontact or speak to men. I didn't realize how manipulative I was being to the poor sap and didn't realize I was leading him on.

I, too, had to wear so many burkas I decided to buy shares. I had to stop talking to men because I got asked out all the time and really, all I wanted was directions. Life is cruel, is it not?

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@Mame,

men are simple creatures with only one thought in their heads

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@Linkat,

two.

we gotta eat as well...

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@Rockhead,

Rockhead wrote:

two.

we gotta eat as well...

You got it. Interior decorating and food.

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