kind of confused

Looks like its going to take longer than I thought it would to get an answer.

Please realize that this is an international site. It's after midnight here on the East coast. In England, its not quite 6 in the morning.

I wasn't going to answer but you should realize that there is a sexual orientation called bisexual. Not saying you're that. I don't know you to make that kind of judgement.


http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/bisexual

Also, you may not actually be sexually aroused by your step-brother. I'm assuming you're at least a teenager or older but still in puberty. That you are going through certain hormonal changes at this time. It could be just a coincidence that you are physically reacting as a side-effect of all those hormones in your body at the same time your changing in the same room as your stepbrother.

its chill i just kinda wanted to know if this happened to some people sometimes

Hi My kids are teenagers and this is the advice I'd give them or their friends if they asked the same question..... I think you should try and let it go, and I definitley don't think you should talk to him about it . It could get very unpleasant and you have to keep living with him - and he'll be a part of your family one way or another for the rest of your life. You say the wrong thing now and I'm sure you will regret it. And I don't think that talking to him will make you less 'confused' anyway. You need to think through your feelings without complicating it by possibly getting him very angry with you. I would give the same advice whether you thought you were gay or not and whether it was your step brother or step sister. It's pretty normal to have emotional and/or sexual feelings for people we shouldn't - we can't help the feelings but we don't have to act on them. Maybe try and lessen the situations (like watching him get undressed) that are difficult for you.

Edited to add that I was typing this while tsastepan posted - I agree with the comments about hormones!

thank you so much for your advice it has helped me out in weather i should or shouldn't talk to him about it or not thanks

You're welcome smq. Good luck.

Do you have any other brothers?

This probably doesn't have a lot to do with this particular relative, but rather what your body is now experiencing. Having unwanted erections is quite normal for young men. It just seems to happen when you don't want it to. (Is it in the morning?)

Don't worry about it. Just laugh about it or ignore it.

night and sometimes in the morning