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What is she after?

 
 
pinelurk
 
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Reply Mon 29 Aug, 2011 11:24 pm
@Izzie,
An update for those of you who were curious about how things would develop. We've seen each other twice since I was posting this. She's not as direct as other people, and also reserved – as my posts above make clear. But I know with quite certainty that she's looking for romance, and clearly chooses to go slow. Maybe because she wants to see what kind of guy I am, which suits me fine if I am to trust my gut and the way I feel about her. Fact is, I appreciate her even more for doing this. It tells me we're both serious about relationships.
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PUNKEY
 
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Reply Tue 30 Aug, 2011 10:46 am
Oh dear - you are assuming things.

YOU are speaking for her.

After all this time together, you need to ASK her "I really enjoy being with you. I am hoping it could turn into something romantic. I am willing to go slow about this. What do you think?"

Then, and only then, will you know what's in her head.

Until then, never put your thoughts in her head and heart.
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