Last summer my sister gave my cell number to a guy and i was thinking " oh great now i get to deal with this bs" anyway he started texting me ,calling me ect. Well I really started to like this guy..lets call him John..so john and i sat up all night talking about random things (neither of us wanted to stop talking).we kept talking everyday so he asked me to go to the park with him (cheesy i know) so We hung out together and by that point i was REALLY liking him..and he was calling me all the time so i know he was liking me too..all of the calls/texts were kind of getting annoying because suddenly he started just saying "k" to everything..so i stopped talking to him i thought "hey you wanna be with me ?fight for it" well.he didnt he just gave up..and now i have a new cell number and i tried contacting him through facebook but i know he doesnt use it alot..his best friend was online so i asked him to give my new number to john he promised he would because he knew how much we liked each other..but i dont know because he hasnt talked to me ..and i dont understand why..what did i do wrong/
If there was a point in time
that he began saying "k" to everything, I 've gotta wonder what
transpired immediately B4
that point in time?? Did u offend him? He sounds crestfallen.
It sounds like something caused him abruptly
to lose social momentum; become disspirited
That is consistent with discontinuing contact.
so i stopped talking to him i thought "hey you wanna be with me? fight for it"
He might have taken that as a personal rejection.
About 30 years ago, a young lady with whom I was obsessed for a long time
told me not to call her any more.
, that was the last time that I called her.
what that meant. It did not mean "fight for it."
It meant that she demanded distance and silence.
If he feels that u rejected him
, that u don 't see value in him,
then logically, it falls to him
to do his best to take his pleasure elsewhere.