@izzythepush,
There really aren't any words/phrases that grate on me, Izzy. They is what they is.
Quote:In American English gotten is correct. In Standard English gotten is incorrect,
It's not really a matter of correct versus incorrect. If it was teachers would take a more realistic approach. Trying to stop young people from acquiring natural language patterns is hopelessly foolish. If BrE had 'gotten' in the past, there's no reason that it can't get it again.
The older crew, the ones that are bothered by 'gotten', have had their language day. Language is, as you've noted, fluid, and the younger crew, as it always has done, establishes these new aspects of language.
Again, I wonder if the Brit kids' use of 'gotten' mirrors the NaE use or if it is being massaged slightly to "suit" BrE.