@msolga,
When I moved to Albuquerque in 2002, I discovered that people showed great respect and concern for old people. Many times, strangers came to help me with a task which I was having difficulty with.
One young man waited outside a Walgreen store for me to come out because one of my car tires had flattened. He changed the tire for me. So many people unknown to me have helped me as my disabilities became more apparent,
Good friends have taken care of the front and back yards and the house. My two doggies love them.
I have such good neighbors. People in my neighborhood often helped me to get my garbage bins out to the street. They've cleared snow off of my walk and driveway when they saw me attempting to clear them. One neighbor put the 10 garage shelves together for me. The list goes on and on.
Now they insist on helping me at I near 82. That's been an advantage in my old age.
BBB