@JGoldman10,
No, I don't think you're an Uncle Tom nor racist, I think you're concerned and frustrated...like a lot of Black people. Remember, I'm Black too! I would love to be able to have you feel a little of what I feel as a woman.
Now as a Black woman I'd like to think our Black men are acting, not simply reacting, to a sad situation that really needs some sort of solution.
Can we be friends J??
Lady