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saishaa
 
Reply Sun 27 Mar, 2011 07:22 pm
What is most important in a happy marriage?
 
Ragman
 
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Reply Sun 27 Mar, 2011 08:01 pm
@saishaa,
Common goals, awareness of oneself and an understanding of you partner. It helps for both partners to have had good role models and/or parents that had happy marriages as well.
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dadpad
 
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Reply Sun 27 Mar, 2011 08:02 pm
Trust and communication
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maxdancona
 
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Reply Sun 27 Mar, 2011 08:07 pm
Quote:
I know a way to stay friends forever,
There's really nothing to it,
I tell you what to do,
And you do it.


Shel Silverstein
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chai2
 
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Reply Sun 27 Mar, 2011 08:09 pm
Having one blind eye, and one deaf ear.
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PaddyH
 
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Reply Mon 28 Mar, 2011 12:18 am
@saishaa,
It's singly unobtainable!
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CoastalRat
 
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Reply Mon 28 Mar, 2011 05:19 am
@saishaa,
I think dadpad had it right. Trust and communication. The only other thing I would add is that whenever things get a little rough (and they will), never let yourself forget why you got married to begin with and hold on to that.
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djjd62
 
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Reply Mon 28 Mar, 2011 05:21 am
staying single, a few women i've been interested in and dated are happily married (to someone else)
chai2
 
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Reply Mon 28 Mar, 2011 06:54 am
@djjd62,
While you dated them?!
djjd62
 
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Reply Mon 28 Mar, 2011 07:01 am
@chai2,
no (not that i know of anyway)

i simply meant, by not marrying me they're happily married
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maxdancona
 
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Reply Mon 28 Mar, 2011 07:01 am
@chai2,
So Djjd62 is the secret to a happy marriage?
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thack45
 
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Reply Mon 28 Mar, 2011 07:06 am
@saishaa,
saishaa wrote:

What is most important in a happy marriage?
A happy unwed (unwedded?) couple that decide to get married is probably your best shot. And then keeping it that way.

**HINT** When people get married, they do not become intrinsically responsible for the partner's happiness.
djjd62
 
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Reply Mon 28 Mar, 2011 07:15 am
@thack45,
i also know a few folks who have 20+ years unmarried together who seem to be quite happy, legally they're joined by kids, businesses, property, just not a ceremony of any kind
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maxdancona
 
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Reply Mon 28 Mar, 2011 07:24 am
It seems to me that the original question is overly broad? It is kind of like asking "what makes good music".

The answer, of course, depends on what makes the two people involved happy.

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