Great, Setanta. That ought to make Diane and Bob feel up.
I do agree with Frank about the smoking, Diane. ('course I would). No sense in putting him through any trauma at this point.
I really know that things are gonna be fine for you both. Hey, ain't I the resident witch?
A little anecdote:
My son and I were driving home from the country and a VW van full of hippies were in the other lane. I gave the peace sign and blew my horn. My son, who was very young at the time, was totally embarrassed for some reason. I asked him, with some amusement, what he wanted me to do. He looked at me with those chocolate brown eyes and said, "Keep your mouth closed and your hands in your lap.".