Dys is enraged with me. I don't argue with him enough. which annoys him.

People don 't argue enuf.
That 's what 's rong with the world;
that n non-fonetic spelling.

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@Diane,

Diane wrote:

Osso, have you been drinking? Your thread is very strange in a creepy kind of way.

As you well know, Dys is extremely sick. If you want to pick on someone in public, pick on me. Oh, of course, I'not the one you want.

And neither is Dys.

Stop this idiocy and get some sleep.

Don't get upset, Dianne. Most of us know that dys is a good soul with a
loving heart and that he's been too sick to argue with anyone.

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@CalamityJane,

I've got to stick up for Osso here, as I dont think that she was malicious or creepy at all. However, at her age she should know damn well that it is frequently the case that people show their love and caring about each other though constant arguing. She is also correct that not being willing to argue with a person who enjoys/needs arguing is going to be a problem if one is trying to maintain a intimate relationship or friendship with them.

I am saddened to hear that Dys is not doing well again though...

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@hawkeye10,

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.....if one is trying to maintain a intimate relationship or friendship with them.

Right, but this is not the case here as Diane, dys' wife, has mentioned above.

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I have only been a similar situation once in my life, when I was in my middle 20s. A woman that I worked with and I "connected" instantly, and became close friends. The way that we related was that we constantly berated, insulted and criticized one another. It was very strange, but at the same time, weirdly energizing.

When some time later I found out that she was a pathological liar, I dumped her, fast. Oh well, but it was fun while it lasted.

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@CalamityJane,

there is quite a distance between where things are made to appear on a2k, and where things really lay.

sometimes the ugly realities are best left undisturbed.

this would prolly be one of those occasions...

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@Rockhead,

Right!

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@ossobuco,

ossobuco wrote:

I don't know what to say, we are different people.

Dys takes argument as friendship

I'm like, let me alone.
You all know I semi adore the dys.

Geez. I didn't mean that to be a thread.

I assume the last two lines are an edit to what was intended to be a PM to someone rather than an open thread. If so, then I think dys would rather have the creepy crahp being spewed out in the open than flying around by PM. I'm sure he'd not have this **** being thrown around at all, but better (I would think) to show the mud-slinging for what it is.

I have no idea when this supposed argument of "many minutes" took place, but I highly doubt it was in the recent past.

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@hawkeye10,

hawkeye10 wrote:

I've got to stick up for Osso here, as I dont think that she was malicious or creepy at all. However, at her age she should know damn well that it is frequently the case that people show their love and caring about each other though constant arguing.

Well, there is ALSO,
the accuracy of the argument in and of itself,
for its OWN sake.

I hope that Dys will soon recover his good health

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I am sorry to hear dys is not well. I wish you a quick recovery, dys.

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@OmSigDAVID,

Quote:

Well, there is ALSO,
the accuracy of the argument in and of itself,
for its OWN sake.

exactly

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@dyslexia,

dyslexia wrote:

Quote:
Well, there is ALSO,
the accuracy of the argument in and of itself,
for its OWN sake.
exactly

SO STIPULATED!

David

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Dys is not a bully.
We tease and taunt.
I am well aware how much in pain he is.
I doubt he wants me to treat him nicey.
Actually, he wants me to argue, to engage.

Yes, I had a drink. Rum and chocolate milk. Yes, I had the computer go flooey.
I love him, but he knows that.
Interesting, all the instruction.

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@ossobuco,

you got a mighty funny way of showing your love...

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@CalamityJane,

Huh?

I think Dys' call to me, irate at my not arguing with him, was a call for engagement, that I failed at.

You are all so righteous.

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@ossobuco,

not righteous.

but not shitting in our own back yards, either...

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@ossobuco,

No osso, but if dys indeed called you or vice versa, than that would have
been a private conversation between the two of you and not something you
put on a public forum.

If I have a private conversation with someone, I would not appreciate reading it later on at a2k. That dys hasn't responded to you should be indication enough that this was a big mistake on your part.

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@JPB,

Mud slinging?

Dys likes to argue, and I was whining about that, his interest in it the day of the call and my non interest, and how it relates to friendship.

Look at the rest of you, claiming I don't know him. I guess that exact call was 4 weeks ago, but it has been on my mind.
So I put up a lame post tentatively arguing about arguing between friends.
Watch the lights flare.

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@ossobuco,

a month ago.

and it bubbled up yesterday.

into a thread...

seems odd. but then I'm creepy.

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@CalamityJane,

I was teasing/taunting him.

Of course I shouldn't have posted that. I should have called him and engaged. My questioning, my failure to argue well, including at the right time, was a part of it.

The slams, though, are interesting.

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Dys is enraged with me. I don't argue with him enough. which annoys him.

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