@ehBeth,
People meet for drinks, or lunch, or dinner, as part of networking relating to business or employment--and it's not at all a dating or purely social situation.
And networking appears to have been what this woman was doing--he had a lot of connections and influence and she was looking for his help with her job search. She had already worked for the NRA.
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She said she was let go from the National Restaurant Association's Educational Foundation in the summer of 1997 and asked to meet him for coffee a month or so later in Washington, to ask for his assistance with her job search.
So, if two people meet for coffee, or drinks, or dinner, to discuss possible employment, or business issues, it's always suspect if one of them is male and the other female? Networking of that sort can only go on among men? As soon as you have a man and a woman in that sort of situation you have "a date"?
Come on, when people want to meet or get together to discuss matters like that, particularly when one is from out of town, they'll go to a restaurant and have dinner and talk. It's more relaxed and less formal than sitting in an office. And the woman isn't saying that Cain behaved at all inappropriately during dinner.
I see nothing wrong with two people having dinner together to discuss business related issues. I've often had lunch or dinner with male colleagues, without any "chaperones" present, and have never given it a second thought. And nothing inappropriate ever went on. And I don't think this woman anticipated that Cain would make moves on her, you really don't expect that sort of thing to happen in that type of situation. Maybe plainoldme is right about women being naive about that, but, I don't think most men would do what Cain did with that woman in the car after they had dinner. In business related encounters, most men behave appropriately, and so do most women.
Cain seems to have had a problem with inappropriate behavior, at least in the past, and he should admit to it already. If he keeps denying it, he'll have women crawling out of the woodwork simply to support each other, which is what this latest woman appears to be doing.