Eva wrote:I simply meant that one-sided relationships often cause insecurity in the person who loves more. Which is a very good reason to avoid that kind of relationship, no?
We all agree, with Eva and Lola, that equal relationships are best.
But, doesn't it often happen that equal relationships become unequal? That somehow one partner dominates the relationship, and the other -some times irrationally, from the outsiders' point of view- clings to it?
In any case, with all these diverging answers from women, my friend's point is lost. I guess, now, that what he was trying to say is: "in the short run, us men think we're running the show, but women choose us and end up ruling the relationships".