@Chights47,
There is no 'meaning behind things', as if 'meaning' were some sort of 'set in stone' cesspool that everyone taps into. You bring what you call 'meaning' into the world, 'it' doesn't exist somehow independently of you.
The funny thing here is not only are you defending keeping your 'self' a slave to these words, you think they actually exist and anyone who does not agree should be charged with some sort of anarchism.