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Fri 1 Oct, 2010 05:53 pm
my boyfriend of a year and 3 months has been acting strange lately. at school wen we are at lunch he acts like he dosent noe me and if i try to go sit with him he dosent talk to me, but yet he ask my friends if they seen me. he hasn't tried to hang out with me for 3 weeks. when i txt him he dosent talk to me the same way he use. he told me last week that he dirint know if he wanted to be with me anymore because our relationship isitn working out i told him if he wanted to make things work and he said yea so i told him for the 4th to stop acting like that and he said he dirint because i make him feel like i dont want to be with him & yesterday i asked him if he loved me and if he wanted to be with me and he said yes but then today atfter school he was driving by and i called his named and he drove off and dirint even say bye so i really dont know what is going on he makes me feel like he doesn't want to be with me but at the same time he makes me feel like he does so if any guy or gal has any clue wat might be going on with him i would love that
(sorry for my bad spelling
Wow! that is one hell of a sentence. Spelling is only a small part of the problem.
Here's my advice: People fall in love and people fall out of love, it's normal. It is probably time for both of you to move on and find other people to be happy with. Trying to force someone to continue a relationship in which they are no longer happy only makes them mean and hurtful. It opens up a whole new world of possibilities for you, but please start by focusing on your education.
@evadiaz,
He's only telling you "yes this, yes that" because you want to hear it, and can't see things spelled out for you, he's playing you for a fool. He is probaly laughing behind your back because you can't see he isn't interested in you anymore.
He's confused, for sure.
Give him some room. Stop seeking him out, texting or bugging him.
I know it hurts that you feel unwanted, but you must let him go to get him back.
How old are you two? I see he is driving.
PS Try to use puncuation in your posts. It gets exhausting trying to figure out what you are saying when everything runs together in one long sentence.
If you're getting the feeling that he's not interested, you're probably right. Usually your instincts are right, and it seems he's avoiding you. Best thing is to let it go. If he wanted to be with you, he would be. Don't cry over spilled milk - move on. And why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you?
And if you can't use punctuation for some reason, at least separate your sentences with some paragraph returns.
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