@Stevensigh,
@Stevensigh, I've been fat and skinny ALWAYS particularly hairy, I'm no "Brad Pitt" but I'm no elephant man either, nor have I cared which way I lean. I've been fairly selective in who I ask out, mostly because I've always been rather shy with women...all that being said, I'm 50 years old and I've seen roughly 60 women, dated many more, but by seen I mean I've been with them in excess of 3 months, I've had relationships of 1, 1.5, 3.5, 5.5, and 14 years in length (which is my current and the longest). The secret is proximity you have to be out, and see them to date them...and I would recommend seeing them several times and feeling them out a bit before asking them for something innocuous like a coffee or something. also when you have established a date do something fun and interesting, it doesn't have to be expensive, but make it fun interesting and funny is always good too. My height is only 5'6''...so say hello, and be yourself there are plenty to go around, and I've never once dated a woman I wasn't proud to date, nor have I dated a woman I didn't think was pretty, I'm not rich, but I'm nice, kind, and protective... that may not be what all women want, but apparently at least 60 of them did...be yourself and get your butt out there.