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My new boyfriend takes a really long time to cum. At first I thought it was a really good thing, but now it seems were running into problems. He can last up to an hour, and said he's lasted 2 hours before (and I dont think he's lying about this) I enjoy sex, but going for an hour is really hard for me. I dont climax from sex, and he's pretty big, so after a while it just starts to hurt, which in turn makes me want to stop, and then I'm not as wet anymore which makes it hurt even more! Sad

I want to make him feel good, and obviously I want him to cum. So i guess my question is, is there anything that I can do, to make it more enjoyable for myself, or any tricks to help make him cum faster?

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@sexylexi,

have you considered getting a fluffer?

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@Rockhead,

If your talking about what I'm assuming that your talking about. NO. and I dont think I'd want to.

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@sexylexi,

The first thing that occurs to me is K-Y.

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@DrewDad,

Thanks. I'll deff try it.

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@sexylexi,

Personally, I'd tell him to help himself first and come to you when he's good and ready... or look at some porn, whatever will get him hot (like at least 30 minutes' worth!) - lol. Serious about this, though. That would bore the pants off me.

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@sexylexi,

sexylexi wrote:

My new boyfriend takes a really long time to cum. At first I thought it was a really good thing, but now it seems were running into problems. He can last up to an hour, and said he's lasted 2 hours before (and I dont think he's lying about this) I enjoy sex, but going for an hour is really hard for me. I dont climax from sex, and he's pretty big, so after a while it just starts to hurt, which in turn makes me want to stop, and then I'm not as wet anymore which makes it hurt even more! I want to make him feel good, and obviously I want him to cum. So i guess my question is, is there anything that I can do, to make it more enjoyable for myself, or any tricks to help make him cum faster?

The guy has a hard head too... He has loser written all over him... Ask his boy friend what he thinks of the situation; because if he can't figure out that girls don't like to get poked with a stick all night he is almost too dumb to believe...

Consider that too much penus is a sign of violence, that it is only a part of love making, and that the object is play, moving to it and delay, starting over, warming it to a boil, feeling all, giving all, taking all, living all your life in the moment... Anyone watching the clock, him or you isn't getting it, and it is time to play the mating game again...

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so, is this a joke thread?

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@Mame,

THANK YOU! Thats an awesome idea. I'll suggest it, and we'll see how it goes.

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@Fido,

haha I love the way you put that. Thanks!

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why not consider, when you'vre ready to quit and he's not finished.... bringing in the stunt ****?

<he made a rhyme..heh heh >

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@blueveinedthrobber,

blueveinedthrobber wrote:

why not consider, when you'vre ready to quit and he's not finished.... bringing in the stunt ****?

<he made a rhyme..heh heh >

The point isn't an orgasm... The point is the relationship, and relationships being what they are, often painful and difficult and demanding; sex is the grand prize that can keep people going even when they see no reason... It is not the orgasm, but every moment leading up to it... How many times in our lives can we enjoy fully what we are doing at the moment, where we are not denying self for some future self or past self... How many times in our lives can we just live in the moment thinking of nothing but the moment, not carring if it is our first or last on this earth, and saying, thinking, now I can die... Everything of love and love making is medicine for the soul, and it is no more finished than it is building up again... Why not, after an orgasm spend a few moments in massage, not in lusting after your lover but in pity, and understanding... And if you should catch yourself all spent in a mirror, have pity for your own uncool monkey self, and think what comedy you provide the gods or roaches who view you from afar... We are a joke, so cruel, so lonely, so incapable of love and honor, and all we have to make our lives with is others like ourselves... Do we not deserve some pity, and is there anyone besides ourselves who will give it, who is capable of giving it??? So rub your lover and love it up.

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@Fido,

do you respond seriously to every purposefully sophmoric and silly post you read?

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@blueveinedthrobber,

Mr. Throbber, allow me to enlighten you.

<extinguishes cigar, rises from divan, adjusts sleeves of smoking jacket, moves across the parlor to the window overlooking the English garden>

Woman is like a violin. Sex, a symphony. We start pianissimo (or should I say penisimo--high five!), gently manipulating her strings such that her whole body vibrates and she begins to make the most beautiful noise. We crescendo and decrescendo from movement to movement, though incrementally approaching the thundering exstasy of fortissimo. The bow dances upon the strings, an entire universe of love unfurling around us. Until finally, silencio. And gently you lay her back in her case.

Now if you'll excuse me, I must go masturbate.

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@Gargamel,

Now that was good.

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@blueveinedthrobber,

blueveinedthrobber wrote:

do you respond seriously to every purposefully sophmoric and silly post you read?

do you always name yourself a backward renob?

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Sexy - is your boyfriend using a stimulant, like Viagra?

Sometimes that can delay orgasm for the male.

Once you've had enough, I'd just tell him, "Thanks lover, that's great. Now I really must get some sleep." Let him finish off himself.

PS I'm more worried about you saying that you don't reach orgasm. Apparently he doesn't know how to really make love to a woman.

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@PUNKEY,

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Sexy - is your boyfriend using a stimulant, like Viagra?

Sometimes that can delay orgasm for the male.

Once you've had enough, I'd just tell him, "Thanks lover, that's great. Now I really must get some sleep." Let him finish off himself.

PS I'm more worried about you saying that you don't reach orgasm. Apparently he doesn't know how to really make love to a woman.

Think you can make it happen??? All you can do is help or hurt...

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@Fido,

Fido wrote:

Think you can make it happen??? All you can do is help or hurt...

What in the world does that mean?

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@Mame,

Mame wrote:

Fido wrote:

Think you can make it happen??? All you can do is help or hurt...

What in the world does that mean?

That line, Maybe he doesn't know how to make love to a woman... One does not make love A woman, or womanhood... One makes love to a specific woman as though she is the last woman, the only woman in the world. like you are Romeo and she is Juliet, as though she is Delilah and you are Samson; but never ever think you can compel her to have an orgasm first time, last time, or any time... It does not always happen, and surprise surprise, it is not the only thing...

Love is a form of communication, but sometimes people only hear the static of their lives... Then, the act, the closeness, the sympathy and empathy, the caring all help to carry people through to the next time...An orgasm is nice, not the end of the act or the relationship... Because it ends what can be the most healing, essential part of a love relationship, I often put it off too; because I never want it to end...Sometimes life can be so wonderful that death is painful to consider, impossible to welcome... If I ever get too old to make love I will miss it, and regret that I did not love my wife more, or that she was not my only... She is the Goddess of Love...

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