fishin' wrote:
Quote:...the use of religious theory in the justification for change that bothers so many (myself included).
If there is a valid secular reason to oppose gay marriage for example, I think most people would be willing to listen and discuss.
When a Christian says, "It is an abomination to the Lord" or "It is God's will" I wonder myself if that Christian knows any intelligent way of persuasion. The fact is that they are so separated from secular reasoning, they can't put anything in words that we would understand. But, basing your system of beliefs on religious theory is more than just "will" and "abomination." Religious theory discusses different things with reasoning that is factual and true, but hard to understand by a freedom seeking society. Take gay marriage as an example. Christians will state that gay marriage opposes family. A connection between man and woman is the only natural way of reproduction and that it's not possible in a gay marriage. Arguing this on some other platform is fruitless. Shifting the argument to the fact that some straight couples can't have children, that adoption is a beautiful solution, that some gay marriages consist of loving and caring people as the very definition of family is also forgetting the fact that it is not natural. These citations of flaws and arguments of synthetic solutions don't address that gay marriage is not natural. No other species in the animal kingdom has issues with same sex relations. A gay couple might be able to find absolute peace and harmony in such a situation. They might live perfectly normal lives. And good for them.
What people fail to see about Christians is that they forgive. They don't like certian things and they forgive. There are certain things about this world I don't like. I have to live with that. We all have the right to enter public debate and voice our opinion. If you see fanatic Christian activity as trying to be domineering and dictate the way we live, I see everyone trying to do that. And I don't have to listen. I don't even have to care. Which is the real problem you face. Don't get mad at people for caring enough to do something, they make a small percentage of people anyway. Get angry with the people who won't do anything despite hitting them over the head with reason.