I have a problem logging in period. Every time I do an error message pops up asking me if I forgot my password. I got through the drill every time and reset my password that has always been the same go to my email click on the link provided and THEN I am logged on again.
I saw you say to someone that you were going to contact us about that (but you haven't) and I even saw you contact me on facebook about it (but I do not use my personal facebook account to answer questions about a2k) but if you just change your password next time you get that reset password link (you can even change it to the same one you last used) it will stop happening.
It just puts you into your account, if your current password isn't working you need to change it.
As for your other questions, nobody is reading your PMs. However I am a bit concerned about how hard and how often you hit your wife. Could you let us know a bit more about your wife-beating habits and whether you like or dislike loaded questions?
PMs are blocked for all users beyond a certain date because we don't feel like spending a lot of time policing the spam from some members who have been very abusive with this community.
Sure, I know you may not like that but this is a free service and I've already lost enough sleep and time with the spam, the crude limit will be in place until those efforts cease and I'm sorry that it inconveniences others.
At some point I'm going to sit down and tweak that to be less crude but like I said, this is a free site and it gets by with what resources it has, the spam has taxed those resources and spread us thin so the spam is being stopped by a crude, temporary, restriction. It will probably be modified sometime this month to something more nuanced.