@Ares cv,
Ares;65870 wrote:Really??? You even have Hadrian who was a Roman Emperor and he was gay. The Greek and Roman cultures, to my understanding, were highly promiscuous and they didn't care about the gender of the partner.
Greek Homosexuality
Roman Homosexuality
I realize the Roman one has "unverified information" but that is just bits and pieces, the Greek page is solid.
P.S. Forgot about Straton of Sardis, the Poet.
Read a little deeper in to your own links.
Given the importance in Greek society of cultivating the masculinity of the adult male and the perceived feminizing effect of being the passive partner, relations between adult men of comparable social status were considered highly problematic, and usually associated with social stigma. However, examples of such couples are occasionally found in the historical record.
Everything else in your Greek link is what I said, Older man to Younger boy was the norm. Outside of that it was not.
Moral opinions
Above all, pederasty was condemned in the Republican era and dismissed as a sign of an effeminate Greek lifestyle. In the mid Republic homosexual acts were widely accepted, if the active partner was a Roman, and the passive partner a slave or non-Roman. Deviations from this pattern were morally condemned, but apparently had few legal consequences. Martial and Plautus describe a wide range of homosexual behaviors, in part to poke fun at them like other minor standard deviations, but without too much real moralizing. On the other hand, there is also from the year 108 an indictment against C. Vibius Maximus, a Roman officer in Egypt who had a sexual relationship with a young nobleman.
Juvenal condemned many forms of male homosexuality, and especially laments Roman men of high birth who show a moral front but secretly took the passive role. He found men who openly played the passive role pitiful but at least honest, and praised true love found by a man for a boy.[16] Public speeches usually condemned all forms of homosexuality. When Julius Caesar conqueror held office in Macedon, he was rumoured to have had a relationship with the local Nicomedes and played the passive role but, though this damaged his reputation, it apparently had no legal consequences. [17] The emperor Hadrian had a relationship with the younger Antinous, although this was also criticized but not significant enough to prevent him plunging the empire into mourning following the unexpected death of Antinous in 130.