@JLNobody,
JLNobody wrote:But as you remind me "Culture is bigger and badder than you or I will ever be." I see it almost as a soup in which I have been immersed my whole life, a soup of words and letters and ideas--not to mention conditioned feelings. Even our ideals of self-transcendence and authenticity are not totally without social grounding. We are just lucky to have much more freedom for experimentation and self-assertion than during the Middle Ages.
You are a much kinder and gentler person when it comes to 'culture'. I view 'culture' as much more insidious. Culture assumes its role as a “false god” and expects you sacrifice your 'Be'-ing for the greater good of culture. Becoming 'immersed in the soup' is exactly what happens. From the moment you were born, the world has been barging in your existence and demanding that you set aside 'you'. “She has his mother's eyes”, “He has his father's chin” were the beginning of the labyrinth we call “culture”. 'Culture' then goes on to say whether you get a pink room or a blue room, etc., etc. 'You', 'Be'-ing, become so infused in the 'soup', you no longer can make the distinction between who you are and the 'soup'. 'Culture' doesn't allow humans, 'Be'-ing to stand away from the crowd and pursue excellence. It is culture's sole purpose to 'level' everything down to 'soup'. It is your purpose in life to uncover who you are and go against that flow with all your might.
JLNobody wrote:I see it almost as a soup in which I have been immersed my whole life, a soup of words and letters and ideas--not to mention conditioned feelings.
Notice the words which flowed from your lips without the distinctions being made ever being noticed. “I” is distinct from 'soup'. If you're going to be who you are in this world, you need to yank your ass out of the soup. That is our lot in this life.
JLNobody wrote:Even our ideals of self-transcendence and authenticity are not totally without social grounding.
More like social 'watering-down'. Your 'ideals' are who you are. 'Ideals' is a concept that stops us from getting under 'ideals' to uncover the 'you' that resides there. You couldn't “have” ideals if there wasn't something under the surface reminding you of who you are.
JLNobody wrote:There's so much more to say on the subject isn't there?
Not really. Once you recognize that 'Culture' is replacing 'you', 'Be'-ing, with its expectations of your existence, you may realize that you don't want want play anymore.
Let me leave you with a short story. I told this story to the CEO of a 400-employee company where I was working. Let’s call him John.
I was walking down a long corridor and all of a sudden John and I were walking along side of each other.
I glanced at him and said, “John, did you know that all organizations and social structures, including this company, are like monkeys in a tree?
“Howz zat?”
“Well,” I said, “If you look at the tree you will see monkeys in the top of the tree, monkeys in the middle and lower branches of the tree, and there are monkeys hanging out at the bottom of the tree.”
The monkeys at the bottom of the tree are foraging for food and keeping one eye open for any morsels of food that are dropped. The monkeys at the bottom of the tree try to gain an advantageous position around the tree by pushing each other aside, bullying each other by raising their arms and making loud noises, or fighting for the best position.
The monkeys in the middle of the tree don’t have to forage as much, the food is better, the view is a little bit better, and there’s not as much pushing and shoving.
The monkeys at the top of the tree get first choice of where to forage; they get the best food, have the best view, and instead of pushing and shoving each other, the other monkeys gracefully step aside when they come down out of the tree.
Like the monkeys in the top of the tree when the CEO is looking out from behind the podium he sees smiling faces looking up at him.
I asked John what he thought the monkeys at the bottom of the tree saw when they are looking up.
“What did they see?”
“Sphincters!!”
Culture is nothing more than “Monkey see, monkey do”. It is a game we play to guarantee our survival.
One last thing. I was speaking recently with the owner of a local bike (bicycle) shop and he mentioned something about going back to simpler times. “Simpler times” is you reminding you to get back to 'Be'-ing who you really are. It is not an invitation to go hide in a cave. Returning to 'simpler times' is you calling you back to your authentic 'self'. It is that simple.