Reply Fri 29 Nov, 2002 12:52 pm
My touchy feely kissy moment of the year:


Life isn't about keeping score.
It's not about how many friends you have
Or how accepted you are.
Not about if you have plans this weekend or if you're alone.
It isn't about who you're dating, who you used to date,
how many people you've dated, or if you haven't been
with anyone at all.
It isn't about who you have kissed,
It isn't about who your family is or
how much money they have
Or what kind of car you drive.
Or where you are sent to school.
It's not about how beautiful or ugly you are.
Or what clothes you wear, what shoes you have on,
Or what kind of music you listen to.
It's not about if your hair is blonde, red, black, or brown,
Or if your skin is too light or too dark.
Not about what grades you get how smart you are, how smart
everybody else thinks you are, or how smart
standardized tests say you are.
It's not about what clubs you're in or how good
you are at "your" sport.
It's not about representing your whole being on a piece of
paper and seeing who will "accept the written you."

Life just isn't.

Life is about who you love and who you hurt.
It's about who you make happy or unhappy purposely.
It's about keeping or betraying trust.
It's about friendship, used as a sanctity or as a weapon.
It's about what you say and mean, maybe hurtful, maybe heartening.
It's about starting rumors and contributing to petty gossip.
It's about what judgments you pass and why.
And who your judgments are spread to.
It's about who you've ignored with full control and intention.
It's about jealousy, fear, ignorance, and revenge.
It's about carrying inner hate and love, letting it grow
and spreading it.
But most of all, it's about using your life to touch or poison
other people's hearts in such a way that could have
never occurred alone.
Only you choose the way those hearts are affected, and those
choices are what life's all about.
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Reply Fri 29 Nov, 2002 02:12 pm
Accept for the last part, I agree.
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Reply Wed 25 Dec, 2002 09:11 pm
I love this Craven, thank you for posting it!
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Reply Wed 25 Dec, 2002 09:21 pm
Life is a magazine, with lots of pictures and advertisements.
existential potential
Reply Wed 20 Aug, 2008 03:45 pm
life is something to overcome
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Reply Wed 20 Aug, 2008 04:10 pm
Life is ...

...a box of chocolates
... what happens when you're busy doing other things
... a short bright spark between two endless darknesses
... not a rehearsal
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Reply Wed 20 Aug, 2008 04:14 pm
Marvin, the paranoid android

"Life? Don't talk to me about life!"
Reply Wed 20 Aug, 2008 04:16 pm

The first ten million years were the hardest, and the second ten million years were the hardest too. The third ten million years I didn't enjoy at all. After that I went into a bit of decline...
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Reply Sat 7 Feb, 2009 12:15 am
@Craven de Kere,
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