@Procrustes,
Most of your post is just a bunch of 'spinning in circles'.
There are no definitions, what 'you' call definitions are combinations of characteristics(concepts) used to prove the existence of the one who 'put them together' through the agreement of others.
I was referreng to 'your' reliance on what is called 'definition', treating them as some 'thing' that somehow exists outside of 'you' to prove a 'point'(excuse not to move off your own ground).
I am not talking about the term 'paradoxical'. I am talking about 'what' the word 'paradoxical' points to which is the lack of an ability to come up with an explanation that's 'good enough' to get the other people on the planet to agree with you.
It's you that 'draws you back', you 'act in accordance' with the others so that you will not have to 'be' in a way that is 'un-pleasant' or whatever other label you have subscribed to.
You're never ging to 'get' anywhere other than where billions of 'humans' have already been if you keep using the same explanations.