@Ali phil,
Ali;158643 wrote:No you cannot avoid your biology? Don't understand your point?
If it is biological why would our dessisions make us gay or not?
If your born gay your born gay? Not having a relationship with the same sex person doesnt make you strieght. Hence the saying 'in the closet'
It's just not "either/or".
Many have a little gay side, but can suppress it, some have an extremely strong gay side and can't suppress it.
Specially observed in muslim countries with death penalty for being gay, there are still gay people, that can't help themselfs.
See it like a scale from 0 - 100%, and that can apply to any other human behaviour. If your homosexual tendency are low, it can be suppressed by other things like reason, group think ..etc, but if it's very high, it will overwrite everything, well ofcause dependandt if your other mental areas are strong too.