@Joe,
Joe;84608 wrote:Salima, If I may interject, I suggest giving your friend some material on self science and semi-spiritual ideas on conscious relaxing methods. That said, you mentioned that he is a Heroin addict and Into Psychotropics? Is he more of a party user, such as taking his drugs intensely over period of days and then crashing? or is it more of a Everyday Need, constant Habit? Sounds like a silly question, but the difference in the two, is important with understanding the layers of his dependence.
hope all is well for now.
thanks joe-that is what i was wondering about, what things can i determine that are of importance. he is in america and i wont be there until february but maybe i can find out if there is still time. i was there for five weeks in may of 2008 and didnt see anything but mj and moderate levels of beer. i mean i lived with him, he is my son. but i saw signs of his not paying bills-not even opening them- which he hadnt done before, he has been out of work for almost two years.
he seemed to me to be experimenting as a matter of curiosity and looking for something. i would make a guess that it is not an every day thing, but something he feels he is doing as entertainment? is it possible that isnt an addiction? but now within the last few months i find he doesnt make sense any more. i dont know if he is high when he calls me-sometimes i call him and i can tell he is on something-but i thought it was booze, his talk is slurred etc.
he told me he has been into stuff since he was a kid but i never saw it as anything other than occasional use. now it is definitely more-ugh. i can pm you some more details that may give you information that will be enough for you to tell me more about what condition he might be in. i really think he may be gone before i get there.
over the years i had tried to get him into various spiritual things, tried to interest him in methods and traditions that i am into that relate to his D&D stuff to get his attention. over the years i have shared with him a lot of methods, i even left things there before i moved out on anger management, gurdjieff fourth way stuff, etc. but he never took to any of it. we talk about it, he asks me what i am into and is interested, but so far none of it has appealed to him.