@chopkins,
chopkins;157993 wrote:yes i have asked that question, and yes i have talked to my wife about this. but she thought the feelings went away since the last time we talked. i have spent many hours trying to figure out why fantasize about her sister and the only thing i can think of that her sister has that my wife doesnt is longer hair (my wife cut hers to shoulder length and her sisters is mid back). I dont have a fetish for it, i just like long hair on girls (maybe thats the definition of fetish). But it seems kinda silly for me to be desiring another woman because of different hair length...
Thank you for all your responses. I dont think ill be able to find any rotted corpses to stare at though, there is a shortage of those in Sacramento.
I'm sure you can find some rotten corpses or road kills on the internet.
You conciousness are filled with good reason, which will tell you to be reasonable about your illogical desire, yet your subconcious desire are strong and wrecks you a bit.
Maybe you could do a simple request that your wife grew long hair, and her sister cuts it. It may appear as a huge thing, but that may what has to be done.
Else do as other has suggested, think of rotten corpses whenever you get those forbidden desires.