@Fil Albuquerque,
Fil Albuquerque wrote:
I agree with you generally speaking of course although what I meant is that blame is the shortest algorithm to not have a good explanation on what indeed happened...plus also the argument that you playing a major role in events is not anyway justification for taking blame unless your action was consciously contrary to your best judgement by the time you took a resolution to action...normally that is not the case.
...Blame feeds more an emotion of comprehension then comprehension itself...
Well I see your point.
But would a person who does not recognize that they played a huge part in what resulted in current problem being worse than a person who realizes they played a role?
I think realzing or being aware of how much you play a part in your own problems is the first step in helping reduce future similar outcomes. Don't you think? But a person who never realizes this, could repeatedly create the same problems for themselves and on top of that blame everyone else for why they continue to happen?
I think this is referred to as personal growth. I could be mistaken.
Since we are social beings, I don't think everyone is always 100% to blame for every problem but in some cases it could be 99%. I think this is at least fair if not still problematic itself.