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Because she a rip-raving bitc....

Look, Fred. Everyone here has told you what you already know. So, you really have 3 options here. See?! Three's a lot of options! Here we go:

1. Stay with her and let her keep jerking you around. That will be just as much fun as it is now. In another 3 months you'll be writing the same post.

2. Drop her like a bad habit and find someone that actually likes you enough not to treat you like crap. This option is much better than Option 1. Well, unless you like that sort of thing.

3. Everytime she wants to come over and sleep with you, let her. Then kick her butt out in the morning and tell her that "It was fun. Call me when you're in the mood again." Repeat repeatedly. In the meantime you can also look for someone described in Option 2. I think this is the best of all the options.

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Sugar you are sooooooooooooo RIGHT!

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I just re-read the first post and realized that the whole living together for all but a month is another red flag. Needs some free/ cheap rent, does she?

(Sorry to be harsh, Fred, but hopefully some strangers saying, "a-HEM!!" will help you be more objective about this. She's no good.)

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I'm just going to say it. You're a big pu$$y. Acting like a real virgin. You're letting some GIRL walk all over you. First mistake/proof of you being a pu$$y, is you moved in with her after ONE month. What is wrong with you? Don't you think that's a little too soon? Since she's your first lay, that little piece of pink heaven down there went to your head. She keeps dumping you, and you just suck it all in. Next time she calls you, if she does, tell her "listen, I'm busy having dirty sex with some chick. Unless you're interested in a three way with us, beat it." She'll get the hint. Instead of worrying about your psycho ex-girlfriend, go find other women.

"Best way to get over someone, is to get under someone."

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This is another problem if I ignore her and leave her alone and tell her to get a life, then that would make her want me more!!! She has told me repeatedly that if I would ignore her that would make her want me that much more!!!! NOW WHAT!

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Fred, listen to Sugar, who's posts regarding this sort of thing always sound exactly like what Mrs. cav, my lovely PRACTICAL wife would say. I was done with women like yours a looonnnngggg time ago. How many posts have you already dedicated to this subject? How much time reading our responses and replying? You say your heart needs to get over it, but you understand us. That indicates you need to use your head for once regarding this situation.

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Fred,

It's your life and if she isn't going to play a part in it then she shouldn't factor into your decisions about what you will do with it.

Make up your mind and stick with it, it doesn't matter if she says she'll be a stalker. That's what guns are for. ;-)

"Stalker" is overused in America. I think you mean to say that she might persist in trying to get your attention up to the point that you put your foot down and she realizes it.

If that's the case it's not a good reason to keep your foot hovering over the floor thinking about it.

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The Supremes said (sang) it best:

Quote:

You Keep Me Hanging On

Set me free why doncha babe
Get out of my life why doncha babe
Cuz you don't really love me, you just keep me hangin' on
You don't really need me but ya keep me hangin' on

Why do ya keep a'comin' around playin' with my heart
Why doncha get out of my life and let me make a new start
Let me get over you the way you've gotten over me-hey

Set me free why doncha babe
Let me be why doncha babe
Cuz you don't really love me, you just keep me hangin' on
Now you don't really want me, you just keep me hangin' on

You say although we broke up you still wanna be just friends
But how can we still be friends when seein' you only breaks my heart again
SPOKEN: <And there ain't nothin' I can do about it>

Whoa-oh-oh

Set me free why doncha babe (Whoa-oh-oh)
Get out of my life why doncha babe (Whoa-oh-oh)
Set me free why doncha babe
Get out of my life why doncha babe

You claim you still care for me but your heart and soul need to be free
And now that you've got your freedom you want to still hold on to me
You don't want me or yourself so let me find somebody else, hey hey

Why doncha be a man about it and set me free
Now you don't care a thing about me, you're just usin' me-go on
Get out, get out of my life and let me sleep at night

FADE: You don't really love me, you just using me

and then there's Gloria Gaynor for when you're really ready to let go:

Quote:

I Will Survive

First I was afraid
I was petrified
Kept thinking I could never live
without you by my side
But I spent so many nights
thinking how you did me wrong
I grew strong
I learned how to carry on
and so you're back
from outer space
I just walked in to find you here
with that sad look upon your face
I should have changed my stupid lock
I should have made you leave your key
If I had known for just one second
you'd be back to bother me

Go on now go walk out the door
just turn around now
'cause you're not welcome anymore
weren't you the one who tried to hurt me with goodbye
you think I'd crumble
you think I'd lay down and die
Oh no, not I
I will survive
as long as i know how to love
I know I will stay alive
I've got all my life to live
I've got all my love to give
and I'll survive
I will survive

It took all the strength I had
not to fall apart
kept trying hard to mend
the pieces of my broken heart
and I spent oh so many nights
just feeling sorry for myself
I used to cry
Now I hold my head up high
and you see me
somebody new
I'm not that chained up little person
still in love with you
and so you felt like dropping in
and just expect me to be free
now I'm saving all my loving
for someone who's loving me

Let these be the soundtrack to your life until this is sorted out.

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Oh my....just saw Fred's last post....doesn't that just say 'run' to you? Run now, call the police if you need to later.

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Ok Slappy one thing She was not my first I was her first and she moved in with me!

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You got it Jespah!!!!! Smile

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Well I think that I need to seriously think about not letting her come back again! You know I always wondered why a woman wanted an asshole for a bf instead of a nice one. Now I know because I have a heartless ex GF! Go figure...... curious

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They don't "want" an asshole, but they don't want a wuss they can walk all over.

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Well said.

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You know what I finaly agree with you slappy!

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I agree with the others in saying "get on with your life". She obviously isn't considering your feelings, so it's time to move on to someone who does.

Best of luck to you.

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