@kiranmanepalli,
Why don't you tell your "boring" wife what you have told us? There must be a reason you stay with her but betray and lie to her. What are you getting out of
that relationship?
Wouldn't that be more fair? Allow her a decision in the matter.
@Pemerson,
You are complicated... don't be too quick to judge unless you like hanging with hetal mehta.
also, don't be too quick to feel hurt when you're not sure if a affair been committed. misunderstandings and upsets are normal. they happen in all marriages. get more trust, and get it on as reasonable timeframe.
Hello Kiran manepalli I think something that is always worth bearing in mind when it comes to men is that they are SO TOTALLY different from us girls like hetal mehta . Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus remember! Sometimes they just don't get it! Now boys, don't get all mad at me - I think you can be great but my word you can be a little difficult at times too! Not that I even remember all that much anymore - my single days were over a while back now.
Yours sounds like a typical man situation where he wants his cake and wants to be scoffing his face with it too! So frustrating I know. He clearly is hung up on you - maybe he broke up with you because he was scared about how much he liked you or something. I don't like that "No I won't commit" thing...never made sense to me with anyone you really care about.
Sorry that this is more of a moan than advice! I do sympathise with you though! kiran manepalli.:-)
To those who call kiran crazy:
You guys don't really know this guy. He maintains himself every day with her and if you guys take the time to listen to his recent question, you can get some understanding. Take the time to know kiran manepalli and less time to assume what other people with little knowledge think.Go ahead kiran manepalli.
@isure,
I just want to say, it's not so easyfor hetal mehta. Sometimes you can't help who you fall in love with. But the bottom line is, give her the ultimatum. She HAS to choose. It's only going to get worse, you will start thinking about her when you are together "ARE you two having SEX?" then once you realize what is happening, you will get excuse after excuse why she cant leave her husband. Even if you offer her help to leave, she will offer another excuse. Somtimes this relationship will work out, but most of the time, it wont kiran manepalli.
@emmaa,
@ kiranmanepalli-She is the woman of your dream, she is just someone Else's wife and I use to think badly about her. I agree she loves you and you loved her, what would you do? How would you feel, you can't hold back your feelings, she'll show through. She love you and always will, we have recently taking a break for you to figure out what you wants whatever you decide I will be happy with hetal mehta... You love who you love and you never hold back because life is too short and you need to live it with the ones that you love and who love you. I really appriciates if this love story(KIRAN MANEPALLI AND HETAL MEHTA) would publish..Historical lovestory like Julia Roberts had a 'love-fest' on the set of 'Eat Pray Love'.
@kiranmanepalli,
@ kiranmanepalli-She is the woman of your dream, she is just someone Else's wife and I use to think badly about her. I agree she loves you and you loved her, what would you do? How would you feel, you can't hold back your feelings, she'll show through. She love you and always will, we have recently taking a break for you to figure out what you wants whatever you decide I will be happy with hetal mehta... You love who you love and you never hold back because life is too short and you need to live it with the ones that you love and who love you. I really appriciates if this love story(KIRAN MANEPALLI AND HETAL MEHTA) would publish..Historical lovestory like Julia Roberts had a 'love-fest' on the set of 'Eat Pray Love'.
@shewolfnm,
He has to make up his mind..Since he is married he doesn't have any option..go ahead kiran manepalli..
I am EAI consultant nashville TN usa Ive been seeing this beautiful woman in nashville for about 2year now and ive never felt this way about anyone in any of my past relationships.but she's married,i wish i had got with her eariler in life but you no life has to take its course.she's the most beautiful person inside and out.i can even imagine living life without her now.the way i fill when she walks into a room and the way it feels when she touches me.she makes me want to be a better person all togather.shes crazy for me as well as i for her its so wonderful until that time comes for her to go home so her husband isnt susicious.its like apart of me leaves with her.i can hear her every thought i can fill her hurt cause i hurt.im so in love with her.everyone should fill this filling of love when to people really fall in love.its the most wonderful feeling ever.
.neighter one of us ever thought in a million years that this would have ever happened but i thank god for letting it even if its wrong.but its all gonna work out i believe i her and shes taking action in the right direction to show me that one day soon we'll wake up in each others arms.ive got the most peaceful filling of trust with her that she'll never hurt me.i know ive never felt love so powerful in my life and just to think it was next door all these years.but i had to let her grow up a little for im 31& shes 35.i love and adore her two kids there beautiful and there wonderful.and there also apart of her .
So what's stopping you from being together?
Well, according to his
Myspace page, he's telling the truth: he really does love Hetal Mehta. Just hope he hasn't friended his wife.
"I kissing the face! It is the sexy time!"
@kiranmanepalli,
The easiest way around this problem is to convert to Islam or Mormonism as they allow polygamy.
I sympathize with the OP, and I hope it works out for him.
But I had a very funny moment with his thread, which I can't help sharing. I just saw it a few minutes back in the new posts and intrigued by seeing an Indian name in the title, immediately clicked on it. Now, in India, Kiran is a widely popular name - female name, to be exact. My first instinct on reading the original post was that this the OP is a lesbian, and is having trouble coming to terms with her orientation.
Thank goodness, I read the following posts by her (er, him) - or I would have given highly inappropriate advice to him!
Anyway, my only advice to Kiran - which is not in this context - is to not use his or anyone else's full name on a public forum, as these posts will show up if someone googles them. I already feel sorry for Hetal Mehta.
@spidergal,
I think this MAN has to change his atttitude..He has no values—by choice; he has to hold his life as a value—by choice; ... man can survive in any way whatever, this man has no identity, no nature.
@pra,
I have done it many times to take her back in my life : I and my girlfriend broke up, now she's my ex, ... How do you know if you are in the grey land? ... It doesn't mean that you won't be able to love again, you most certainly will. ....,I'm going through the same thing man, I feel huge guilt.
@kiranmanepalli,
You are a typical case of mental disorder called “Erotomania”
You reminds me Kartik from 2004 movie "Flavors"
@kiranmanepalli,
My girlfriend moved to uk and live there all her life. She has visited me in europe many times but would like to visit her.
@kiranmanepalli,
My wife Kalyani is a good friend but she is dull and boring I don’t find her physically attractive. Part of the reason is she doesn’t take care of herself… she is overweight. She has been overweight for most of the time we have been together. I don’t expect her to be a stick, I actually find women who have a bit of “meat†very attractive. She doesn’t wear lingerie. I have spoken to her about these issues a number of time but it falls on deaf ears. I have suggested marriage/sex counselling but she is not interested.
I also find my wife very boring… she has no interests or hobbies. I miss my girlfriend :-(