@peaceful,
I've had a similar discussion with people before. Love is not the only pre-requisite to marriage. You can love someone who makes you absolutely miserable. They can be a really good person, and still make you miserable. Compatibility is as important as love in a marriage.
If he has a low sex drive, and you have a high...if he keeps rejecting you and leaving a 'void' in your life, you will eventually stray to someone who will fill that void (yes, I realise the innuendo, but that's unavoidable).
We all have emotional needs, and it's up to you to recognise what yours are, and if you husband is willing to meet them. If he's not, then it doesn't matter how much you love him, how nice he is...he won't make you happy.
In the end, this life is about happiness. It's up to you whether you consciously want to pursue it and live a fulfilled life...but if you don't, you will still pursue it subconsciously, and because it will place you in situations that are against your morals, you will end up screwing your mind up, and still being unhappy.
Ie. make up your mind what's good for you, what you value, what makes you happy and then be true to yourself....in a way that shows caring and respect for your husband, and for you.
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