chubby

At a young age (you've written that you're 13 or 14), having self-confidence and a positive body image are hard concepts to grasp. Feel good about who you are! Focus on and understand that you're far more than just a body. You have a soul, a mind, a heart and dreams. The fact is in that pix you include in your profile, you don't look chubby at all.

If you think you'd be more comfy being thinner, then you can make a choice to lose weight and get more exercise in your own time. Forget what others think as they aren't you. They don't have your best interests at stake - only you do. Please yourself and that confidence will rub off on others and their opinions.

oh thx, but i was talking in genral (i think thats how u spell it ) haha i rather be chuuby than skinny. haha im happy with my body !! well sometimes any way thanks for the advice

I prefer chubbies. Pink and kind ideally. A moderate amount of cellulite turns me on.

haha cool....pink? what do u mean by pink?

It's tough for a 14 year old to resist the glorification of a starved body in all the glamour magazines, but you keep playing your violin and soon you'll be judged by your talent, not your body.

haha thx but i prefer viola

It's tough for a 14 year old to resist the glorification of a starved body in all the glamour magazines, but you keep playing your viola and soon you'll be judged by your talent, not your body.