@dyslexia,
Send your old man a picture of the gorge that you plan to be dusted over. Let him know that this isnt up for debate and to have a nice eternity in a hole in the ground.
Graves seem really confning . My genome has been mapped and is presently sitting on a multi terabyte computer with a whole bunch of other folks. Thats infinitely neater than leaving a dried up corpse in a shithole graveyard somewhere.
I got along with my parents (it took several years towards the end of my dads life but we made it through all the alpha male **** that I exerted in my youth). I told both my folks about
1atholicism was not for me
2Whie I was at it, I was an orthodox agnostic
3 Me and my wife were gonna be composted and used as river gravel in the ST Croix