@hawkeye10,
Quote: As I have said before a strong collective requires strong individuals who choose to work together for the greater good. I continually bash the victim culture, the assault of free speech, the assault on masculinity, and talk about the masculine feminine dance BECAUSE getting this stuff right is the only way to fix what ails the collective. we need individuals to be fully formed and smart, anything that gets in the way of that is a problem as far as I am concerned.
The problem with this ssential belief is that many times a participant carries it into a thread that , by its stated purpose,should provide no opportunity to exude testosterone. Thre are many topics that an author wishes to have a technical discussion about a topic. The usual run of threads is that , depending on the immediate interest, some person, with hormonal based opinions jumps in and adds nothing except vitriol and some whacky beliefs that, jut because theyve said it, it must be correct. Then, if the person is criticized (usually politely at the outset), the poster will fly off the handle and, still dead wrong, start hurling epithet in place of evidence.
I know that in my discussion about "Overfishing"I drew in a couple of that kind and , whhile I actually love the insane give and take, I begin to wonder whether , for the good of the overall thread,I shouldnt just put the seriously mental offenders on ignore. When a poster , obviously uninformed by several basic standards of measurement, will become belligerently and openly hostile to anyone who attempts to correct them. Is it the poor medium which only allows a "first draft" method of communication? or are the readers of the belligerent posts interpreting the poster incorrectly.
I know in the case of IONUS, he was as technically deficient as could be and I dont think anyone would deny it. Yet he was quickly and openly hostile and was totally involved in homespun invective in a vain hope that he could use testosterone to carry his argument. All it did was to ahut off any continued interest in that thread, because I did the inexcusable by engaging IONUS with an equal amount of vitriol. (Rule one in debating the Phillistines is NOT to act like a Philistine)
Until last year,We used to have a poster named real life who, although "uninformed" by any scientific standard, was really correct in preaching his worldview. MAny folks got really pissed at him for his SUnday SChool methods. I thought that, with his frame of reference, he did an excellent job of pressing his beliefs and his worldview. AND, he did it in an unsettlingly polite manner.
I think that a good opponent poster is one who is visibly unflapped and remains totally polite , even in their rebuttals of anothers insults. In my mind, there are only 3 people on the entire board who are able to maintain disturbing politeness while being yelled at, and they are Msolga Joe Nation and Dave.The rest of us have shown that we have buttons that are pusheable and , some of our buttons are very close -in and next to our enter button.
There are actually very few trolls. Spendi and Oolongteasup come closest because they merely post something (often clever)that contains a simple appeal to the audience that says "Hey, notice me, IM HERE TOO".
Those kinds of trolls are harmless and easily absorbed into a discussion. On the occasions that one of them actually makes sense or is engaging the topic (no matter how often one claims that all his posts are on topic), he is actually answered as if all his posts were constructive and relevant. I find that (after 5 years) , that whenever spendi tries to derail a thread, the best thing to do is just go afield and let the thread come back on its own. If I were to hop in and comment or criticize, I would become the focus of , say, spendis comments for as many posts as I could last.
ASo, the art of polite unflapped rebuttal, and judicious application of"ignore" are learned skills in this board.
Ive learned that ,by engaging a defiantly ignorant poster who resorts to insult over evidence, all Im actually doing, by becoming equally insulting, is to scare off anyone else who wants to join in the conversation. SO, instead of showing the insulting poster the error of his ways, all I do is kill my own threads by becoming equally insulting, and who wants to be part of that?.
I dont mean to make this about me but , since the only experience I can peddle is from personal encounters, Id use it as my own "teaching moment"