I’ve been thinking a quite bit about issues raised on this thread & would like to share a few of my thoughts & questions with you all.
One thing I’ve been wondering about is the issue of “personal freedoms” that djjd & others have brought up. I’ve been wondering, amongst other things, if there might be different
cultural expectations to such notions. I see lots of references to liberty & freedom of speech here, particularly from some US posters. On a variety of threads, including this one. Whether you want to accept this or not, my concern has
never been the nature of ideas exchanged, it is
how ideas are actually discussed or debated.
Or how people treat each other online, in other words.
I have no problem with posters engaging in a robust exchange of ideas & opinions. But I personally
do have a concern when snide personal attacks, particularly combined with little actual
substance, substitute for real debate. Especially when a poster (or a group of posters) is using that form of attack against others. Actually a thread where that had occurred was my original motivation for starting this thread. Whether “trolling’ is the correct title for that sort of behaviour or not, I’m actually not certain now, but anyway ....
But back to cultural expectations. Maybe we (or some of us, anyway) have different understandings of what’s OK & what isn’t when exercising our personal “freedoms of expression? That's something I’ve been thinking about recently. Another thing that I’d sincerely like some of you to enlighten me about, is
do some of you actually consider personal attacks to be a fair enough tactic in the process of a debate? The reason I ask if there are different attitudes cultural tolerance of such things is because in my country the ideal of a “fair go” is a pretty strong one. A person using (what would be considered) underhanded tactics in an attempt to “win”, rather than prevailing by superior skills, would be considered to be “playing the man & not the ball” (to use a football analogy
)
But perhaps you consider expectations of online exchanges an entirely different thing to "real life" encounters? I don't.
The point I would like to make, whether such tactics are considered acceptable or not in a debating situation, is
that not all people see such tactics as acceptable, or are comfortable with them. Possibly it turns them off participating if they think they may be the subject of such attacks, too? Is that worth considering, if you have an “anything goes” approach to debating here? Are the concerns of those people any less important than yours?
I get rather weary of the arguments that exercising some basic civility towards others (especially if you are involved in discussion with them) will somehow make the debate less vigorous, less relevant or something .... or that this expectation will somehow make the debate too “politically correct”, or is an exercise in "control", a restriction of “rights”, or that you are being “censored” or something .......
But that might be just my view. You can accept it or not, but controlling what people actually have to
say, holds little interest for me. If I disagree with what you say, I will disagree with you & tell you what my opposing view is ... unless of course I’m going to be personally insulted for having the views I hold. THEN I will probably vote your post down, rather than encourage even more of such responses from you. These days I would probably put you on ignore, too, rather than engage in some endless crapping match with you.
PLEASE NOTE: I am referring to overt posting aggression here, not passionate debating of issues.