rufio wrote:The grapevine is a more confirmed source than a class or a textbook? Not that I think you should be attacked, I'm just curious why they only reserve it for me.
It's probably your style of communication. It was pointed out earlier in this thread that you come across as confrontational and that puts people on the defensive. I think Thomas, from the few comments I've read is trying to show you ways of avoiding becoming a 'victim'.
When I first started posting on the web, about a decade ago, I didn't fully understand the
power that my words carried - perhaps, I'd been brought up in an environment where people didn't listen to me, so I ended up overcompensating and ramming my opinions down other people's throats, or so it appeared to others - I was just saying what I thought.
Iain