@tintin,
Quote:I would request you to answer my comment No: 3,902,586
As you can see, Tintin, even though you may well have thought you were being polite by using 'would', your request came across,
to some, as too forward. When we make a request, especially when we're not face to face, English speakers normally go overboard with their "polite" language.
For English
wordiness often equates to politeness,deference and when making a request, deference, even extreme deference is probably the better course of action.
While it might seem odd that making a request by using 'request' would not be polite, that's how she works.
I was wondering is a great gambit for showing deference.
I was wondering if someone could take a peek at ... /have a look at ...
I was wondering if someone would be willing to have ...
I was wondering if someone might be willing to take ...
I was wondering if I could (possibly) get someone to take ...
I was wondering if I could (possibly) have someone take a ...
Add a
If it wouldn't be too much trouble before the
I was wondering to make it even more deferential.