@eurocelticyankee,
eurocelticyankee wrote:
My wife died 2 years ago, it was actually her 2nd aniversary last Friday.
As he goes Edgar she was cremated.
Now i don't believe in God as such and certainly have no time for main stream religion.
But i like to think, maybe hope there is something after death and there is a chance i might be reunited with her.
And i don't give a **** what science or all the know alls say or think.
Anybody be they priest or scientist who claims to know what this life is, this universe means is full of ****.
Same goes to anybody who claims to know what happens after death.
Religion says we go to heaven or hell, scientists say we shut down, like a robot.
They're all full of **** and none of them actually know for a fact what happens.
So if it's alright with ye all i'm going to keep on hoping i'll meet her again.
You can hope whatever you want. It's your business (and I mean that in a positive way.)
However, you didn't answer any of my questions. I wasn't being rhetorical.
Science doesn't have all the answers, but it seeks them in such a way that can be explained as to the methods used to seeks.
All priests and the like has going for them is "faith" which is believing in something for no good reason.
My husband died 28 days ago.
I know science doesn't have all the answers. That doesn't make someone a know it all. I was asking a question.
Funny how when someone can't or is unwilling to answer a direct question, so much of the time they assume the other person was mocking them.
When I got to the hospital, the body was still warm. I don't know how long every single brain cell, nerve etc stops firing. So, I proceeded as if there could be some form of activity. I talked with him, held him, kissed him and removed his watch in the same way I would have if he were alive.
I just looked it up, and it seems bone, tendon and skin can survive up to 8 to 12 hours after death.
So, maybe I provided some comfort to skin that was transitioning.
But saying "I hope" something survives....I was serious when I said that doesn't make sense to me.
The scenerio I presented. Is that what you think happens? That some essence can control it's movement with the earth and be at a certain other persons death? Or more as a universal type thing?
Hope and faith to me are 1st cousins.
However, while faith can just blindly and blissfully proceed regardless of reason, logic, or proof, hope is much more fragile and painful.
I honestly try to avoid using the word "hope" in anything but the most mundane sense. As in "I hope tomorrow isn't as hot as today"
It just hurts too much hoping for something and having those hopes dashed. That's happened to me an inordinate number of times in life, so it doesn't make sense to do anything but accept reality until proven otherwise.
Faith is blindily believeing.
Hope is willfully jerking yourself around.