@littlek,
littlek wrote:Look at the people who you know who are saying here that they are atheist. Have any of us taken it to a religious level?
I'm probably too tone-deaf to notice when atheists take it to a religious level. For example, I strongly disagree with Farmerman about Dawkins, whom I almost find polite to a fault, and who I think sets an example of civil, well-reasoned discourse.
But in spite of my tone-deafness, I did notice that you personally, littlek, are especially generous about these things. In fact, one of my first memories of our real-life acquaintance is when you impressed me with a gesture along just these lines. You had invited the Boston crowd and me to a dinner at your house. At the beginning of the dinner, you said, and I quote from leaky memory: "Well, I'm not going to say grace, but if one of you would like to, you're welcome. Please be my guessed." (Nobody ended up saying grace.) I don't consider myself overly preachy, but I had never thought about treating my guests with me. At my place, we just sit down and eat. Your gesture was a very persuasive clue that
maybe I was going to like you
sometimes.
So, whatever consensus ends up forming about atheist stridency, let me assure you you're fine personally.