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Does he have adult Aspergers?

 
 
Reply Sat 16 Jan, 2010 06:16 am
I dated a 38 year old man for 9 mos. He lives at home with his parents. Went to lawschool and passed the bar 2008. Tried being a lawyer but didn't like it. Now works for his parents company. Didn't date for a year until he met me. In the beginning he was shy and as I got to know him better he started opening up. He is highly into conspiracy theories, The New World Order, Illuminati, flouride is poison put in the water to keep world population controlled, chemtrails, HAARP. He is prepared for apocalypse with a cache of guns, body armor and survival gear. Believes in aliens (greys,) that a reptilian race lives beneath our surface. He believes he is from the planet Tiamat. Lives in a virtual world absorbs with video games and porn. Is infantile at times. .sleeps with a teddy bear. Sensitive at times..talks about how he didn't get attention or felt love from Dad and was left alone alot to play by himself. Never wanted to sleep over..always had to go home. Expressed he loved me after 3 weeks, likes to hold hands but doesn't like to just cuddle and be held. Only wanted to see me on the weekends when he wanted and when I asked when he's coming over, he would say, "don't ask me that." He broke it off with me with only a text message..didn't want to discuss anything. "You're too nice and attentive and I need too much personal space" was the message. We started texting and talking but he never told me why he broke up with me. I tried getting back with him but he didn't want to..just showed up whenever..didn't call to cancel dates, etc. Pretty selfish. Only wanted to do things he suggested. Anytime I asked him to go somewhere, he didn't want to. I was left confused, felt abandoned. I finally told him I couldn't be just friends and that I wanted more..wanted to be close like before. Do you think he has Aspergers? Some other disorder?
 
contrex
 
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Reply Sat 16 Jan, 2010 06:24 am
Don't go looking for medical explanations when the simplest explanation could be that he is just a crazy asshole.

dadpad
 
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Reply Sat 16 Jan, 2010 07:16 am
He does not have aspergers syndrome. he needs a proper psycological evaluation. His (as described) unstable condition would lend itself to reporting to police and hopefully the removal of guns and gun privelige.
An assesment by social services may also be a possibility.
serenity166
 
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Reply Sat 16 Jan, 2010 08:20 am
@contrex,
If you saw this guy, you'd think he was perfect. He looks perfect...clean cut, handsome, extremely intelligent. I don't think he tells too many people he thinks he is from Tiamat. Now that I read my post over, I'm cracking up...can't believe he is for real! I cried endless tears when he broke it off with me!
Joe Nation
 
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Reply Sat 16 Jan, 2010 11:54 am
@serenity166,
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If you saw this guy, you'd think he was perfect. He looks perfect...clean cut, handsome, extremely intelligent.
Sounds like what the neighbors say after the news reporter asks them if they are surprised to find out they have been living next to a serial killer.

Joe(The report always ends with 'He then turned the gun on himself.')Nation
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tsarstepan
 
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Reply Sat 16 Jan, 2010 12:07 pm
@dadpad,
dadpad wrote:

He does not have aspergers syndrome. he needs a proper psycological evaluation. His (as described) unstable condition would lend itself to reporting to police and hopefully the removal of guns and gun privelige.
An assesment by social services may also be a possibility.

Ditto on the sentiments of this answer. Doesn't sound like Asperger's syndrome.
http://www.webmd.com/brain/autism/mental-health-aspergers-syndrome

You should consult a licensed medical doctor with your concerns rather then try to diagnose him with a board forum.
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JTT
 
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Reply Sat 16 Jan, 2010 06:38 pm
@serenity166,
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Now that I read my post over, I'm cracking up...can't believe he is for real! I cried endless tears when he broke it off with me!


You see it yourself, and if you've described the situation even half way accurately, get away fast and far.
ossobuco
 
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Reply Sat 16 Jan, 2010 08:04 pm
@JTT,
Serenity -
I don't mean to be insulting but you could benefit from looking at yourself and why you are so interested in mating with this person. Do you see yourself in a savior role, a life helper?

Wake up and see him for real. He needs a psychological evaluation and you are not the one to handle all that.

I consider you in danger from him, but also from you, with a fantasy going on and an underlying neediness to be a victim.

If this thread is real, please get away from this.
jjorge
 
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Reply Sat 16 Jan, 2010 11:08 pm
@ossobuco,
I concur with ossobuco's assessment completely!
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sullyfish6
 
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Reply Wed 20 Jan, 2010 03:39 pm
Sounds like paronoid schizo.

Is he on medication?
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