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Tue 12 Jan, 2010 01:43 pm
I approached this married man. Its been about 4 months and we have not had sex but have fooled around other ways. He says we shouldn't have sex because he says a lot of feelings can get hurt and we should be friends first and get to really know each other. However, I truly believe he cheats because he meets with women at local bars and claims they are friends. He invited me to come along to one of his favorite bars when he was with these women. He becomes distant at times and claims his job is keeping him busy. He does have a pretty important position at his job but its also a big fat excuse. I felt like he was using me to boost his ego. While I know that he would love to have sex with me I'm not sure why he doesn't. We had stopped talking and then I saw him at this party. I was wearing a little black dress and 5 inch heels. Very nice!!! He was all over me. He was actually jealous. I saw it in his face. He was texting me and coming behind me whispering in my ear about how nice I looked. Then I didn't hear from him. I sent him mean email because I just felt like he was playing games. He was angry about the email but we ended up talking and agreed to see each other once in a while. He said he will attempt to make more contact. So confused!!! : (
@Susie212,
Susie212 wrote:
I approached this married man. Its been about 4 months and we have not had sex but have fooled around other ways. He says we shouldn't have sex because he says a lot of feelings can get hurt and we should be friends first and get to really know each other. However, I truly believe he cheats because he meets with women at local bars and claims they are friends. He invited me to come along to one of his favorite bars when he was with these women. He becomes distant at times and claims his job is keeping him busy. He does have a pretty important position at his job but its also a big fat excuse. I felt like he was using me to boost his ego. While I know that he would love to have sex with me I'm not sure why he doesn't. We had stopped talking and then I saw him at this party. I was wearing a little black dress and 5 inch heels. Very nice!!! He was all over me. He was actually jealous. I saw it in his face. He was texting me and coming behind me whispering in my ear about how nice I looked. Then I didn't hear from him. I sent him mean email because I just felt like he was playing games. He was angry about the email but we ended up talking and agreed to see each other once in a while. He said he will attempt to make more contact. So confused!!! : (
Do yourself a favor, stop going after married men. It sure isn't going to turn out well.
Cycloptichorn
That hurt my brain, trying to read that tripe.
@gustavratzenhofer,
I enjoyed the part about him not being able to keep his paws off of her in the little black dress and 5 inch heels. The jealousy part gave it a freshness, without predictability or cliche.
@Gala,
Out of 10, I'd give it an over-all rating of six or seven. Not much plot but some interesting situations and incidents. It could sell.
@gustavratzenhofer,
I quite sympathize, Gus. I gave up trying after about the second or third sentence.
@Gala,
Quote:I enjoyed the part about him not being able to keep his paws off of her in the little black dress and 5 inch heels.
Is it TMI if I say it gave me a boner? (Actually I am being sarcastic) I reckon the writer is a stubbly man in a singlet sitting in a dank basement.
@Merry Andrew,
You missed the cliff hanger part where she lets us know what a babe she is and how much this guy lusted after her. The best part, the end, is where she let's us know he'll be in contact. I'd give it a 10 out of 10 for originality and intrigue.
The heels tell me it was a guy who wrote it.
@Susie212,
Let me practice my Jedi powers here: He will contact you. You will have sex with him. He will stop contacting you. You will wonder why this piece of **** who cheats on his wife is not faithful to you. You will contact him. You will have sex a few more times. He will stop contacting you. Again you will wonder why this cheating dirt bag is not capable of committing to you. Again contact. Again sex. Repeat. Repeat. Your confused ego will be bruised, but not destroyed. Ok maybe you will kill the family's pet rabbit at some point, but some how you'll keep marching on. Eventually you will both hate each other, at which time you will find a different cheating piece of **** to focus your attentions on. Repeat cycle.
What does "fooled around" mean, without sex? Please explain.
Also, what is his important position for the company?
These are all important facts about your problem.
Ok does anyone else think (aside from the sex part) that this person sounds like a 10 year old? Honey - you are being selfish and childish. If you don't want to be married, then break it off with your husband. If you want to be married then be faithful to your husband.
How would you feel if this "married man you are some what seeing" was your husband interested is some hot young chick?
Grow up and take care of your own marriage first.
Nah . . puncuation, spelling and sentence structure too good.
Most likely a well educated, hairy man still in his PJ's.
@sullyfish6,
Possibly transvestite. I can see him sitting in his clammy basement at a glowing laptop, chomping on a chep cigar, but wearing a lacy black bra. Frightening thought, actually.
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