okay so i really like this guy whos in gr11 and im in grade 9 , we talked for the first time online one night, later in the conversation we then agreed to meet at school the next day at lunch in the cafeteria but i got a detention unexpectedly(he didnt know ) so he started searching for me and asking his friends where i am and he also got really mad that i didnt show up . later that night i messaged him online apologizing that i didnt show up and that i had a detention he then said its okay and that he wasnt mad .. then i asked him if he was mad at me before that i didnt show up and he said no ( wich is a lie because my friends said that he was and that they saw him at lunch) what i dont understand is why would he lie to me about that ? ( btw that was going to be the first time we would have talked in person because we just started talking to eachother online and online when i was talking to him i asked if he would even recognize me if i went up to him and he said yes and that he saw me before and that i didnt see him .. well why didnt he say hi to me ! he expects me to come up to him first i dont understand!!
Most likely he didn't want you to know he got mad at you "standing him up". Even though it was out of your control. He didn't know at the time and since he got mad he probably doesn't want you to know he got mad.
oh btw everyone..... i havnt yet gotten the chance to hang out with him or talk to him in person .. and all my friends think he likes me and that we should go out or tell him how i feel ,but im not sure yet if he likes me ..
you are looking to much into it. It's nothing more then he didn't want you to know he got mad. Nothing more so dont worry about it. Just meet up with him and see if sparks fly!
Do yourself a favor and stop trying to get into HIS mind. In fact, don't get into a habit of trying to figure out what guys think. JUST BE YOURSELF!
You explained - he understood. Don't go back and re-hash the entire thing.
BTW - What difference does it make if he was mad, or disappointed or had no feelings whatsoever about your missed meeting? Stop caring so much what others think and be your own woman.
Start this whole thing over with him.
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OmSigDAVID
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Sat 19 Dec, 2009 08:41 am
@alexis89,
It might be prudent to quietly just observe
how he acts and how he emotes
when things don 't go exactly his way.
A word to the wise is sufficient.
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alexis89
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Sat 19 Dec, 2009 10:23 am
im just curiouss
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DrewDad
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Sat 19 Dec, 2009 10:30 am
@alexis89,
If he admits he was mad, then he admits that he cares.
"Guys" worry about their image, and looking cool, and not seeming too attached to a girl.
When he stops worrying about that so much, he'll be a "man".
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