@spendius,
If you go back and read everything I've written on this thread - you will see that I am defending this wife. From the get-go her character, although she has not been alleged or even proven to have done anything wrong, (except lose her temper FINALLY) has been questioned.
Why? It's not fair. Was SHE cheating? Not that anyone knows or even alleges.
Do we know she didn't love her husband and only married him for his money?
No, and in fact, her visceral and emotional reaction to her discovery of his cheating would seem to indicate otherwise. It would seem to indicate that she was actually hurt. And why would she be hurt, unless she loved and cared about him and was possessive of his affections- and not just his money?
If it was about money for her, her reaction would have been much more blase. He'd have said, 'Keep you mouth shut so we can keep it rolling in,' and she'd have agreed to.
I'm on this thread because the psychology of it is fascinating - and I do feel sorry for him. I do think he was in a sense, 'created' by his father and his handlers and he's at point maybe where none of it means anything to him anymore. He probably also does have a sexual addiction, that would explain a lot because his wifeis the prettiest one. I hate to tell you - the rest of them are only surgically enhanced characatures of her. But he chooses them - why? Maybe he feels he doesn't deserve her. One aspect of sexual addiction is that the addict is unable to be intimate with the person he truly loves- so he acts it out with substitutes.
I was drawn onto this thread by the notion, oft repeated, that all women are whores. Specifically, the post I first responded to accused this girl of marrying Tiger Woods solely for his money. I feel that I have to defend this girl, and those like her. A woman is not a whore until proven otherwise.
In terms of threads about boats or sailing, and why I'm not on them, I have no real feelings to express, knowledge about or anything else to contribute to such a thread.