Women Don't Care How They Hurt Other Women

Attraction...hope...lack of empathy.... could be any number of reasons really.

If the man is committed to one woman, why would he seek to get attention from another woman?

They are all valid questions, but really only someone personally involved in the situation could know for sure their personal reasons for their actions.

I know for a fact sometimes people act different under the influence of alcohol than they would otherwise....

Did you forget it takes TWO to make that decision.

Besides, you don't know what he told her - he may have told her he was single, or available, for sure.

Why do you think this woman deliberately tried to hurt the other woman?

Great.... a woman sleeps with another womans husband, and you want to make it the man's fault.

seems to me sully made a pretty simple comment

the man may well have lied about this status, it does happen

I dated a man for several months, had sex quite a bit too.
He did a DAMN good job of hiding that he was married.
Until one day at lunch, he forgot his wedding ring.

I got up.
I walked out.
I -never- knew. I was even IN HIS HOUSE. I -never- knew

Yes I do think she knows he's married. A lot of these whores know these men are in relationships. They be sitting right there when he's talking to his so called partner. Most of them know. They don't care about hurting the woman. I agree the man is the really one to blame, but the woman is equally to blame when she knows he has someone. She is hated more because she a woman just like the female.

The word "whore" is a bit strong (assuming that no money changed hands).

The genders are often reversed -- where man have sex with married women. I have not heard men referred to in such strong language.

Which leads to the interesting question, that would change about this situation if the roles were reversed?

It seems to me that the people in a committed relationship are more responsible than an outside party. The cheating partner is guilty of hurting the relationship and the other person. The third wheel (who has no responsibility for the relationship) is not very guilty whether they know about the marriage or not.

Its funny...
the MAN cheats on his wife and everyone just hangs their head and says " Oh. You dummy"

The woman does that, and she is a whore. SHE is the problem. its all HER fault.

yet the man does not respect his wife enough to stay home anyway. Nor does he care about his wife enough to work on issues instead he would rather just find another woman and give HER everything he should give his wife.

But,
he is just 'looking for sex' silly man.

There are a good many men who will sleep with another man's wife if given half a chance, women sleeping with other women's husbands is EQUALITY of the sexes. Dont most all of us care more about getting the sex that we want than we do about what our gender peers think of us? Hasn't this always been the case?

I think your point is well taken.





David

There are men who have lost their jobs because they cheated on their wives. I have never heard of this happening to a woman.

Men are dogs when it comes to sex, and women are kittens (with long claws).

Women are let go all the time after the boss has had his fling.

Yep, I've seen it. One of my best friends did this. She knew this man was married with children, but she would sleep with him. She didn't seem to care. One day I said, I'm just going to say this once because it bothers me - it isn't right, you know full well he is married and not interested in leaving his wife, he just wants a fling, you shouldn't be doing this. She continued until he dumped her. Basically stupid move.

I know another woman who did not know the man was married. He worked with her and was one of those men who didn't wear a ring. She was in love with the dude and was her "first." One day, she picked up the phone and the woman on the other end asked for her love. She asked who was calling (normal proto call) and she said "his wife." She dumped him pretty quick.

This needs to be repeated. It's true.

I just about spat out my Greek salad - **** you're funny.

LeonaBanks, if I asked you if you're a former producer for the Montel Williams Show and you're here to mine story ideas for a new talk show, would you admit that it was true if it was?

Something wicked this way comes, and it smells fishy.

My husband either wears his ring, or meets my wrath when he comes home.

He wears his ring.

He complained once that, because he was an auto mechanic, he HAD to remove his ring at work, or risk getting his finger ripped right outta his hand by some errant auto part.

The compromise: He may take his ring off at work for an especially difficult job. He puts it in a special spot in his toolbox.

If he forgets to put it back on before coming home, I will notice. He won't like my noticing, and I always notice.

This one, ladies, is MINE, and is marked as such.

I've known and even thought I've "loved" ring-less married men, way back when. Lying sacks of ****.

Note: Edited to add "Lying sacks of ****."

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