@blahblahblahqs,
I apologize -- my intention is not to pour salt in the wound. But sometimes you need to hear the unvarnished truth.
You are grownups. You say so yourself that your parents have come around. And perhaps her folks would, too, but that is another convenient thing for her -- if her parents can be blamed for the split then she does not have to take the fall.
People who love each other make every effort to be together, regardless of the circumstances.
Here, I'll say that again.
People who love each other make every effort to be together, regardless of the circumstances.
Make the effort, and see if she does, too. If she doesn't, then you know the answer about whether she really loves you.