so it turns out my roommate Is a Prostitute.

hmmm.

For a much needed lay, I still think I'd be able to turn down ass if it meant hours of regaled minutia about favorite cats, favorite grandsons and a dozen games of Go Fish.

Nah.

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Too bad, you might be able to learn something.

Well, I'm mostly kidding there, but the repellence for anyone older having sex is a near feature of young sex, and plain old ignorant.

Ah DTKO you are just another centerfold victim. Check out what Ben Franklin said about older women.

Facts between the sheets? Most certainly.
Facts about cats? Unfortunately.

It's not repellance. Come on. I'm joking and having fun with it. There is nothing gross about it, and I'd probably be glad to talk at great length about about the personalities of cats (as long as I got to play with the cats). I was just trying to lampoon a bunch of memes at once.

:-D

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Dunno about whores, but quite a few young men appeared attracted to older women....I am not sure when we stop being older women and become old ladies, by the way.....and whether the thread progenitor's flatmate is catering to those he considers old or whom I would consider old.


That being said, I have known a number of young male prostitutes, catering mainly for men, but some for women.

I doubt the bodily revelations are any different for those catering to old men than they are for those catering for old women.

I think prostitution is a tough and nasty way to earn your living for anyone.


And I think fewer men are whores (if they are........be interesting to get a real count...especially in this world of people being prepared to do anything for drugs) because for women it is generally easy to get sex, even when you are older, rather than young men being especially picky about not wanting to prostitute themselves to older women.

Not sure how that all goes for old gay men.

And I am just guessing.

Though, of course, the whole erection thing, if that is what the client wants, would make prostitution physiologically harder for men, I guess.....harder to fake enthusiasm and arousal and all.

Not sure how much the erection counts in the game.


heh heh....I guess guys have a kind of built in "I'm faking" detector.

What makes you think I haven't verified his research?

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Ahhhhhh, come on and tell us about it. You've earned your bragging rights.

Ehrm,Well he IS an escort...He's said how they treat him to Dinners and buy him **** and All This fancy stuff and Then He takes em home and fucks em....

I've seen one lady and i guess she's not bad For An older woman but still....And btw my room mate is Like 40 but very young for his age.....

Yeah,I tried to Do Webcamming Once which i suppose is a close equivilant and i couldnt Do it so i KNOW i couldnt be a male escort.....

I know you were totally kidding TKO, you're much too kind a person to be mean on purpose.

However, your comment above got me thinking about all this, in general.

My first thought was, why would an old/older lady (and I'm still not sure what that means) want to be regaled for hours on the minutia of being able to download 10,000 songs onto an ipod, about the mundane goings on of the 80,000 friend one has on facebook, and having the conversation interrupted intermittedly by twitters and texts?

Then I realized that it may be that it's fair game to comment of the boring goings on of someone older, because one realizes that is the path we are all headed toward. Unless of course you live fast, die young and leave a beautiful corpse. I'd rather go the aging route.

Some older people have what younger people consider an exciting and/or fulfilling life, according to the life they themselves are living at the moment.
The thing is, the same opinion is shared about older people by both youngers that have a pretty full/exciting life themselves, or, are in reality, pretty average, not too exciting, kinda regular boring people themselves.

Most older people don't want to be young again. Oh, they may want some physical problem to go away. They may want to be able to physically do some things it's harder to accomplish. They may want to be able to keep those 20 pounds (or more) off like they did in the past. Those are small specifics they/we occassionally think about. However, when thinking about all the other stuff it means to be young, what they know from experience what they'd have to go through, no way.

As one ages, the wiser people perhaps realize that when the younger crowd makes assumptions about cats, grandsons and go fish, they are really expressing an uneasiness and fear about where they are themselves headed.

Of course, everyone under a certain age is saying right now "no way, that's not going to happen to me"......yeah, sure it isn't.

anyway, what's wrong with talking about a favorite grandchild? That person spent years raising a child, and is now seeing the results of their hard work in another generation. That favorite grandchild is you.

What's wrong with stories about their cat? I mean, it's not like youtube isn't loaded with millions of videos produced by younger people, with hours of clips about their dogs/cats/birds.

Go fish? disk golf, video games on your iphone. zzzzzzzz.

Yeah - I want to hear about it too. I mean I'm at least twenty years older than Diest and I've never slept with a grandfather, but now that I think about it, if I did, I can't imagine calling him a 'lay' and a method of getting some badly wanted/needed 'ass' or that playing fish would be involved in any way.

But I was thinking about this the other day, how it might be easier for women to age sexually in terms of finding people their own age or older attractive. As I'm getting older and am really right in the middle, I find myself looking appreciatively when I look, at guys with gray (or even bald) heads and finding them more interesting and attractive than much younger guys and I sort of feel sorry for guys who are aging, but who seem to want these much, much younger women. I mean how many young girls are going to go with a much older guy when they could have someone their own age and still in their prime?
It must be really hard to want what you know you probably can't have.

*If I were to call an escort I'd specify that he'd have to be at LEAST forty- okay maybe 38.

A 40 - ok may 38 year old man could easily be a grandfather.

I'm not saying he couldn't- I've just never been with one who has been.

oh come on aidan.

what? do you think it would be different having sex with a 40 year old that is a grandfather from a 40 year old that's not a grandfather?

That's like saying it would be different sleeping with a 25 year old that is a father from one that isn't a father. I'm certain you did not have a man that young in your mind when you said that.

since the discussion as turned to age differences and sex, you weren't thinking about the 40 year old who has a grandkid.

The problem in this discussion is that there has been no definition, no consensus on what an older woman, old lady, grandfather, young man, old man, grandmother is.

CJ automatically talked about/assumed if you were a prostitute and had sex with an "old man" that he would be someone stinky, even though hygeine was never mentioned.

Is TKO's joking about having to listen to a grandmother talk about her cats and favorite grandchild, and playing Go Fish, I very much doubt he was talking about a 42 year old woman. I'm guessing he was adding 20, 30 or more years onto that age.

mrhunt roommate has sex with "old women" for money? What exactly does that mean?
For some people, that could be a 35 year old. For others it conjures up and 80 plus person. The difference between those 2 ages would be an old person to others.

what if his roommate was having sex with "young" women for money? What would that mean? 20? 25? 35? 45?

What if the 25 year old had poor hygeine and was stinky? Does that make it ok all of a sudden?

There are just too many variables to have an intelligent conversation about this.

What's old?
What's young?
What's attractive regardless of age?

chai - you're taking what I said way too literally - I just used the word grandfather because he used the word grandmother. I was joking....I also only referenced playing fish because that's what he did.

No - it would not matter to me if a man was a grandfather or not. My point is that I don't find myself interested anymore in men who are obviously much younger than me and I'm happy about that.

I think it would make getting older harder. I think it's working out very well for me that I tend to find men who are close to my own age or older attractive.

this isn't about you aidan.

no one can really talk about this, because no one has defined what they mean by old/young.

What? I can't give my opinion that I'd rather have an older male escort than a younger male escort?

Everyone can talk about their perception and that's the only way you can talk about it because old/young is entirely relative and not even always most importantly evidenced by the physical or chronological.

I'm confused as to why this can't be about my opinion, just as much as it can be about someone else's.

who taking things too literally now?

when I say this is not about you (and it's not, it's not about me either), it's not about being able to give your opinion.

looking back to the OP, we have someone saying their roommate is a prostitute, having sex with old ladies.

What, is an old lady?

What is an older woman?
What is an older man, old man, grandfather, grandmother, young person, young person that like to play Go Fish, young man who would bore an old woman with his talk about blogs, etc. etc.?

That's what I mean when I say no one can have this conversation, without having a common understanding what all these ages are.

How can we discuss if having sex with a stinky grandfather means an 80 year old, or 36 year old? Is one less desireable than the other?

We have no common denominator, and someone saying old/young is up to someone's individual interpretation is a given.

However, if 2 people have two different givens, what we are talking about makes no sense.

We could go on all day about this, but each persons idea of having sex with an old lady for money is meaningless, unless we know what the roommate considers old, what mr. hunt considers old, and address it as that.

no **** we all think old is something else. but without throwing numbers out there, how can we understand each other?

So aidan, what do you consider young? old? a grandfather? an old lady?

For the sake of this discussion and sex, I say young is under 30, old is over 70, grandfather/mother is over 50.
Between 30 and 70 is youngish, middle age, and oldish.

Well - all I can tell you Chai is that I don't think you can put a number on it. I know of one 87 year old man who I don't lust after physically, but because of how much I love his personality and mindset, (which are youthful and in some ways even childlike in terms of enthusiam for life and the ability to be simply happy) I could picture expressing my appreciation of who he is to me and how much I love his presence in my life with more than a hug. I don't know if he'd even want that or not - but that's how much I love who he is and how little his age means to me.
On the other hand there are 20 somethings you couldn't pay me to go near.