Shes mad at me, what can i do?

nothin dude. No matter what you say or do it won't be enough. Best just be honest about what happened and put the ball in her court.

if she wants you bad enough she will get over it. Don't beg, don't pander...tell her the truth and then wait to see if she acts like she is ready to move on. If she does not get to that point then you did not want her anyways.

short version: panzade is correct

I might have an opinion if I could read what you said.

be patient and kind, its a misunderstanding.

YOU said: 'she like blew me off so when my phone died like 30 min later i didnt think anything about it."

That's what you thought, so did you misread her? What does "blew me off" mean? She didn't reply to you right away?

I hope you and her can get over this and move on. But you need to keep your battery charged and pay more attention to how you communicate with women.

So, she behaved badly in the first place? She blew you off even though she likes you and wanted to meet up with you?

Then she blames you for not answering after she blew you off? Because she thinks that after being rude to you, you should be there waiting for her?


There's not one reason why you should feel like crap. Did you do anything wrong? If you are feeling like crap, then you feel you did something wrong. If the girl thinks you feel you did something wrong, she's going to blame you. She's certainly not going to respect you for not calling her on her bad behaviour (ie not standing up to her - because if you can't stand up to even her, how on earth can you ever protect her from anyone else), nor for not valuing your integrity, nor for being dishonest about the whole thing (taking blame for something you didn't do is dishonest, because you are only doing so to please her - another word for it is being manipulative btw)

Think about it - it's not worth not calling them on their bad behaviour.



So she was doing the two faced thing again?


You don't need an answer for every question - "You blew me off, and my phone went dead shortly after. That's the way it is. If you don't want to believe it, that's your problem". As that's the only facts, if she asks for any further info, that's really all you can give, is it not?

By answering further questions with any other info, you show dishonesty (because your story keeps changing)...therefore, she won't believe you. Think of these things as a test of your integrity, and ability to protect her...but don't put up with her bad behaviour towards you (or else you fail that test)


There's no need to say anything. You (if you are telling the whole story) are in the right of it. If you want, you could ring her up and say "You know all those question you kept asking me about the amusement park. Well, I thought about it, and it happened exactly as I said it did - you blew me off, my phone went dead, and now you're trying to blame me for your bad behaviour because you were being two faced, being rude to me while actually wanting to meet me. I don't like that kind of behaviour. Then afterwards, you pretend that everythings okay while telling your friends its my fault - and that behaviour is deceitful and backstabbing. I thought you were a girl I could really like, but your behaviours been ridiculous. Is this really you?"

Vikorr - you did a beautiful job explaining it ALL.
Too bad it will be over his head.