@Pemerson,
Welcome to A2K Pemerson. You picked a heck of a thread to wade in on, but maybe they'll give you a little time before they start throwing stones.
Personally I think Jesus the man must have been a very personable, likable, and charismatic figure. Otherwise he wouldn't have received so many dinner invitations and wouldn't have been invited to parties. And he wouldn't have drawn the crowds that he drew and he wouldn't have been perceived as the threat that he was to the establishment.
I also think he encouraged his disciples, friends, followers to think more deeply, to understand that there were nuances that were not so obvious at first blush. I think he appreciated thoughtful questions asked of him and sometimes gave answers for what others had not yet been able to form questions.
And I think he wants us to ask questions and seek answers now too.