@BillRM,
Bill - I can't show you a connection with those specific men, because I don't know their names, so I can't know their histories.
But I do know this - the huge majority of children who are sexually abused, are abused by family members or people known to them.
Quote:1 in 4 girls is sexually abused before the age of 18. (96)
1 in 6 boys is sexually abused before the age of 18. (96)
1 in 5 children are solicited sexually while on the internet. (30, 87)
Nearly 70% of all reported sexual assaults (including assaults on adults) occur to children ages 17 and under. (76)
An estimated 39 million survivors of childhood sexual abuse exist in America today. (1)
Even within the walls of their own homes, children are at risk for sexual abuse
30-40% of victims are abused by a family member. (2, 44, 76)
Another 50% are abused by someone outside of the family whom they know and trust.
Approximately 40% are abused by older or larger children whom they know. (1, 44)
Therefore, only 10% are abused by strangers.
Sexual abuse can occur at all ages, probably younger than you think
The median age for reported abuse is 9 years old. (64)
More than 20% of children are sexually abused before the age of 8. (76)
Nearly 50% of all victims of forcible sodomy, sexual assault with an object, and forcible fondling are children under 12. (74, 76)
Most children don't tell even if they have been asked
Evidence that a child has been sexually abused is not always obvious, and many children do not report that they have been abused.
Over 30% of victims never disclose the experience to ANYONE.
Young victims may not recognize their victimization as sexual abuse.
Almost 80% initially deny abuse or are tentative in disclosing. Of those who do disclose, approximately 75% disclose accidentally. Additionally, of those who do disclose, more than 20% eventually recant even though the abuse occurred.
Fabricated sexual abuse reports constitute only 1% to 4% of all reported cases. Of these reports, 75% are falsely reported by adults and 25% are reported by children. Children only fabricate ½% of the time.
So, if there are people on the internet trolling for children - even to just talk to or fantasize with about having sex - it would follow that these are people who have an interest in children sexually.
If a man is a father, with young children in his home, and he is interested in children sexually - those children are at risk.
He may have no prior criminal history, precisely because of the nature of his relationship to those he abuses and the facts that bear out that childhood sexual abuse is often a crime that goes unreported or undetected.
If I found my childrens' father talking to children in a sexual manner on the internet - I don't care if he never even looked at pictures of children - if he seemed interested in any way in a child sexually - I would not let him near my children.
It's NOT normal fatherly or sexual behavior Bill.
If I wouldn't let my kids ride in the car with someone who'd been drinking - why would I let them sleep in a house with someone who seems to enjoy talking, thinking and fantasizing about having sex with children?
