@Fountofwisdom,
nasty? really? you are way too defensive and immediately jump to conclusions as you see fit... which is why i have the impression you lack self confidence and generally feel insecure in your skin.
i have no interest in being nasty to you... that would require something far more interesting or important to get to that kind of a level of emotions.
you have asked for input, i gave you my honest impression with the best wishes that, believe it or not, are most sincere. i see a person who struggles, and i do wish you my best in your personal quest.
if you did not want input on how we perceive you, you would not have started this thread, right? so why do you bristle so much when you actually do receive it?