@Fountofwisdom,
I think:
Female, in her late teens.
Albeit, I did not read the whole thread. (I'm procrastinating, as always, but i'm not gonna procrastinate THAT much)
Anyway:
A straight man would not have posted this thread since they have no bug-bears about their societal role.
This thread is almost a 'showcase' of how many differing interests you have. It's very 'look at me, look how diverse I am and see if you can pigeonhole me'. A straight man would have less reason to do this than the suggested gay man or woman.
I'd guess you are not that old as you are projecting yourself, there is no kind of serene backbone often found in the opinions of older people.
Personally i don't think we will get an answer.
I think FOW is enjoying listening to the presumptions we make on the information (s)he is giving. It proabably feels good.